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Photos of the day.

Just a Saturday

Saturday morning, Doon is bouncing on the bed at 5:30 because he put out his shoe last night along with a new innovation: a pan of water for Amerigo, the horse that Sinterklaas rides through Amsterdam delivering presents from now until December 5th.

We all tumble downstairs sleepy and dishevelled and half dressed. Doon reckons his innovation worked: there are THREE presents in his shoe, which he reckons to be a direct consequence of the boon for Amerigo.

It's a book and a DVD and one enormous marshmallow kitty-cat on a stick.

Dylan helps me make my coffee: a daily ritual that involves many games. Is it juice that goes in the pot? No? Ketchup? Dylan guides his sleepy daddy through the correct procedures and ingredients to create a perfect pot of Crrrrrrrrshhhhhhhhhhhhhh. (His word for coffee is the sound of the cappucino frothing).

In the middle of the floor is a fabric tube that kids and kitties have been having a riot with. Doon and Dylan have invented a game called "Bannana Express"

Martha is giving Riley a cuddle, and I fiddle with camera settings trying to catch the soft light on Riley's red fur and Martha's red hair. I don't even get close.

Sleepy morning kitten light

Between taking pictures and videos, I'm reading about Wild Turkeys in an excellent piece by Bill Buford in the New Yorker, remembering that we're having a late Thanksgiving dinner with the Sawyer-Riggs this evening, contemplating the tasks to do today, sipping my Crrrrrrrrrsssssshhhhh and remembering how little of any of this I'll remember by the time Dylan is Doon's age.

Unless I write it down.

I can't remember all the times I tried to tell my myself
To hold on to these moments as they pass

The guy in the Red Suit comes to Amsterdam

The Boys at Sinterklaas Parade

Sinterklaas arrived by boat today with his Zwarte Piet helpers from Morroco. Doon and Dylan and I went into the center of town to greet him and his parade, and get our haul of pepernoten cookies and treats. The shoes go out by the fireplace tonight with an apple for the Sint's horse. Ah, and that beard that Daddy's sporting is part of a Beard Challenge about a half dozen of us are having at work. It stays on until xmas.

Announcing Riley and Nikita

Siberian Forest Kittens

Siberian Forest Kittens Riley and Nikita join Casa Fitzgerald's Concentrated Cute Juice Cannery.






Cottage on Cayuga

Cottage on Cayuga

What a great summer. Thanks to Martha's sister Molly, we spent most of our holiday on the lake. No TV. No internet. Just sunrises, sailing, kayaking, and s'mores. Oh, and a couple hands of poker and a few beers. Great to see family and old friends and just kick back for a while. There's a small slideshow here of snaps from the trip, but disk space doesn't allow us to do justice to all of it, from parties to hiking up the gorge at Taughannack Falls to the amusement park at SeaBreeze, and nothing captures the taste of steamers and silver queen corn fresh out of the field. Doon is back to school tomorrow and Brian back to work -- summer went by too fast.

Off on holiday

Off on holiday

Marth and the boys headed off to the States the Sunday after Doon's school let out. Brian has been hanging in Amsterdam in a bit of shock about how much time he has on his hands without the kids, but after a week of Woo Hoo! now wants to get back to that Dad stuff ASAP. I fly August 3rd. More pix at Flickr.

Zomer time, and het leven is easy...

A little while ago we went to Apenheul, a primate park about an hour outside of Amsterdam, to commune with the monkeys. What a great place. "Zoo" hardly qualifies as a description when it seems the monkeys have more space and freedom than the visitors, which is how it ought to be really. Paths wander around or past large islands where the animals roam free -- you can only see the gorillas from a distance, if at all, if they choose to hang out at the edges of their retreat. (Apenheul holds the record for Gorilla births in captivity: 35 since 1970) In one area, spider monkeys run around in a network of treetop ropes and bridges. They can come down and hang out with the humans if they're so inclined. I told Doon to wear something with pockets, as the monkeys are always interested in trying to scam an illicit treat or grab a trinket (all human food, of course, has to be left outside these areas of the park or locked up in the free "monkey-proof" bags that Apenheul hands out). It worked! Doony ended up with one bold little guy coming over and deftly lifting the velcro flap on his vest. Slideshow here.

The World Cup has begun with a great set of games, and Clan Fitzgerald, while not very pleased that Ireland didn't qualify, are happy to cheer for the Netherlands, England, Italy, and the US. Dylan, bless his cotton socks, will cheer for anyone with a silly hat:

Ahh, Italia!

May 13, 2006: Just back from a week in Italy. What a blast. So great to see old friends and do some major unwinding relaxation in the sun sun sun. Here's a slideshow of pix from our days of olive hunting and pigging out. My favorite bits: trespassing in Salci, the abandoned village, with Paddy and Doon. Hanging out at Rowan's house. The Kite festival in Castiglione. The wild boar at L'oca Bruciata and truffles at Pina's. Playing "baseball" with Doon. Dylan playing with the kittens that Domi had. Visiting Leslie up at our old house. Seeing Doon conquer his fear of scorpions by finding one. Staying up until midnight with the kids watching Suzy's band perform. The placemat drawing Doony did of the entire vacation.




More Words!

April 14, 2006: Dylan said "More" yesterday. Three times, as Martha droned at dinner. When she realized he was asking for something, she got up to get him "more" juice, then did a triple take as Doony jumped up and down saying "He talked! He Talked!"

In some ways, this is his first "real" word in that it's the first time he's used a word, rather than a gesture and a grunt, to get something beyond our attention. On the other hand, he's been fluent in several animal sounds for some time now. Here's a bit of video of his onomotopaeic prowess. Enjoy!




Jive Talkin'

March 19, 2006: It's been a long time since the old creaky website here has had an update. Dylan is now moving chairs to get to things out of reach, he says a limited handful of words clearly (hear 'em here: Da-da, Ma-ma, Hello, and "Dil") and every now and then pops out something clear as a bell. We've heard "Bye" "Rice" one very crisp "Doony" (who otherwise seems to be known only as "Ya-Ya" in Dylan world) and a smattering of other stuff.

Here's a video of what happens when three kids watch Madagascar a *few too many times*:


Sorry about that X -- I Quicktime isn't convinced I've got a valid Macromedia Flash Video license for some reason...
Doony wants to submit this one to "America's Funniest Home Videos" and win thousands of dollars.

Merry Christmas!

December 25, 2005: Santa Claus rocks! He brought us a new cappucino maker, a 20gig mp3 player so we can keep the music collection upstairs on the stereo where it belongs instead of down in the basement on the computer, a combination foosball-ping pong-shuffleboard-hockey-pool table, and all the goodies we could want. Oh, and the kids got some stuff as well.

It was magic. Dylan did a little dance every time he got a present to open and Doon despite bouncing off the ceiling found time to be the helpful big brother. He thoughtfully noticed when his dad broke a much loved coffee cup a few weeks ago, and made a replacement with one of his own drawings on it.

Here's a slideshow of xmas pictures that Marth put together. Merry merry!

Autumn in Amsterdam

November 2, 2005: Halloween in Amsterdam has come and gone, with nary a trick-or-treater at the door.  It's one American holiday I really miss.  Sinter Maarten is coming soon, where kids go door to door with lanterns on sticks and sing for "snoopjes," but there's no pumpkins, no masks, none of that witchy overlay that makes Halloween so much fun.

Dylan has been heard recently to say clearly Kitty, Plum, Mama, Doony, Key, Bye and a handful of other bits of starter vocabulary.  But "Gih?" remains his all purpose monosyllable along with some astoundingly communicative facial expressions and pointing. His giggle when he successfully communicates what he wants is priceless.

It's all about pattern recognition at this age, and he knows when it's time to toddle to the front door to say goodbye to Daddy and Doony, when it's time to crawl "up up up" for his good night kiss through the rungs of the stairway.  In the morning he hangs out with Dad in the bathroom getting ready, and knows when it's time to fetch me a towel (well, every towel actually -- we're working on this) when the water goes off.  He also runs around with his own toothbrush while Doony and I brush and the other day sat on the floor and decided it was time to try toothpaste.  What a surprised and disappointed little face tried to get it all off of his tongue as fast as possible.  He has since decided he was mistaken, and toothpaste is the stuff you put in your hair.

I've been playing around with Google Earth lately.  I have really enjoyed being able to zoom in on the places where Marth and I lived in Italy, the nuclear weapons test site in Nevada where I hung out among the craters, the Shotover river where I went bungie jumping in New Zealand, my grandfather's old homestead in Ireland, even the water tower I climbed in Seneca Falls on one ill-advised teenage lark.  My brother Dave first told me about this application back when it was called Keyhole.  If you've downloaded it on your computer, you can click here to see my placemarks.


Back from Summer Vacation

What a great time in Seneca Falls this summer. We're back in Amsterdam now, where Doon is getting ready for Birthday Party #2 (Dutch Version) and Dylan is walking. Which means a whole new round of Homestead Security here at Casa Fitzgerald. A few pix of the summer holiday here.

Doon gets his swimming certificate!"


About half of Doon's swimming class was invited to try for their A-diploma. This is the swimming certificate that allows them to swim in municipal pools without a flotation device. To pass, he had to swim the length of an Olympic pool with his clothes on; jump in and swim underwater through a ring without coming up for air; tread water for ten seconds with no hands; demonstrate he could float on his back and face down, and swim the crawl, the breaststroke, and on his back.

He did it! Amsterdam makes quite a ceremony of this -- there are greeting cards and special commemorative tiles you can buy to mark the event, and all the parents turn out for the ceremony. As the Netherlands is a country built on water, they make it a national right of passage that everyone is expected to learn to swim. Thanks to Megan for starting him off with his first lessons!

He Stands! (with help)


Who's a proud boy? He's wobbly, but standing with assistance. He's eaten rice mush, cauliflower mush, stringbean mush, and pear mush so far. And woe betide the parent or brother that denies him his stand-up workout at the bedstead or crib, he's serious about this.

We had the biggest snow in 25 years in Amsterdam last week. So Dave, you remember that sled you schlepped to the airport for us and that Marth and I schlepped all the way over here that I thought would sit in the basement unused? Well surprise surprise, it got a really fun couple of days out here in Amsterdam and in Muidenberg with the Stannard-Pickavers family. Pictures of the snowy wonderment here.

Bottle beginnings


Doon asks me "If the world is spinning around, how come we're never upside down?"  I used one of his Ninja Turtle action figures and soccer ball to try to explain it, but I don't think he was convinced. He's reading every bedtime now in English to compliment his classroom reading in Dutch and is proud to have read ten books cover to cover.

Dylan started on a bottle today! Big step for the little guy.  Strange to see him able to hold the bottle on his own -- Doon was so much younger when he started that he couldn't get his little hands around it. Dylan is grasping and holding onto anything he fancies now including hair, human or feline. Guaio has only once lost her patience with him to give him a tap with her paw, which seems extraordinary since he can regularly be spotted with fistfuls of fur that need to be intercepted on their way mouthward.

Doon has made it his personal mission, when Dylan cries, to "Happy him up," and nobody can get the poppy seed into fits of giggles and smiles the way Doony can.

Well, I FINALLY got pictures from Xmas and New Years in Seneca Falls together.  We had such a great time.


Sinterklaas

We had a super Sinterklaas Pakjes Avond (present night) with friends over at Kelly's house. Slideshow here.

See that personality starting to show? Dylan is laughing and smiling now, and while it's sometimes hard to figure out what he thinks is sooooo funny, his big brother figures in the picture fairly often. Here's some more photos.

It's Sinterklaas time for Doony. We went to the parade last weekend, where Sinterklaas rides through Amsterdam on his horse surrounded by his assistants, the Black Petes. They throw cookies and candies out to the kids who line the streets of Amsterdam, so Doon came prepared with his fishnet. Every night, Doon puts a boot by the fireplace with an apple or a carrot for Sinterklaas' horse, and in the morning finds a little present in its place.

Pop quiz: Which one is Doon, and which one is Dylan???? (Doon himself got this wrong!)

That's Doon on the left, Dylan on the right!

That's Dylan on the left, Doon on the right!!

I give up. Send me the correct answer!

Name:

Happy Holloween!

Dylan learns to wave hand, Doon to tie shoes

I was so angry. Doon had tied yet another one of his "super knots" in his sneakers -- a complex series of 27 interlacings which take approximately four days to undo at bedtime. I told him that he HAD to learn how to tie his bunny knots, and he said OK, teach me now. Well whaddya whaddya, he finally nailed it that night and tied them properly four times in a row.

He's reading with me now, so it's Dutch during the day at school and English at home at night. He's keeping them separate pretty well, though his first stab at a new word will sound like Dutch until he twigs. So Hop on Pop started out as Hohp on Pohp, but he's been through the whole book along with Go Dog Go, and has now moved on to Green Eggs and Ham.

Dylan can find his mouth now with his hand, about 50% of the time anyway. He started his first smiles when Grandma Cel was here and he's cracking them regularly now. Too cute. Still haven't caught one on camera, though. (Sorry, Molly!)

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Gramma Arrives

Gramma arrived yesterday and took the classic Irish cure for jet lag: Guinness. Thanks to the Muldoon kids who all pitched in to buy her a flight over here -- it's great to have her around. Here's a new batch of pictures of Dylan and his recent visitors.

More Pix

Day four, and we finally all got a good night's sleep. It's been sleepless bliss, but sleepless. Dylan had a little rash on day three that's now gone completely, he's feeding well and all systems are go, go, go, go, go... ;-) Marth is up and about, Doon is doing great. We stayed up late last night taking pictures, so here you go Molly: Slideshow of Days 0-3 Doon took an awful lot of these. I set up the tripod and taught him how to use the timer on the camera and he was instantly Mr. Film Director -- he's always had a good eye, but he really outdid himself this time.

Dylan awake

King of his blue eyes:

Well, I know I'm biologically imprinted as a parent but I could watch the above video loop for a scary amount of time and not tire of it. Dylan is spending more time awake now, lifting his head, pushing with his feet, but mostly just looking around. He'll fix on a face or a shadow or light source and just saturate it with attention.

(Since Geeks will ask: the loop above started life as Sony DV edited in Premier, saved down to a 7 meg MPEG, then imported into Flash MX using the Sorenson codecs. The Flash file is 3.7 Meg, but starts streaming very nicely well before the whole file squeezes down the pipe. Nice. If you don't see anything, you probably need to upgrade your flash player over at Macromedia's website.)

 

 

Dylan James Francis Fitzgerald

Born 11:15 pm September 5th 3.6 Kilos (7.9 pounds) everybody great.

Marth had to go in to hospital for a check at around 3pm, and in the course of the two hours of monitoring started contractions. She was worried they'd keep her there, but we finally got the all clear to go home and have the baby in the bedroom. But we nearly had the baby in a hospital because we couldn't get a cab home -- ain't that a bit backwards?

The midwife said he's the only baby that's ever bit her. He was very quiet, no big cry at all, very calm and restful and strong. Just a bit annoyed that he had to come out of his nice, warm swimming pool.

Sept 6th: Doony slept over at his friend Charlie's house next door for the birth. Sleeping over is usually a bit of a drama for Doon -- he tends to wake up and want to go home a couple times during the night. But last night, Carin and Ludo reported that he woke up just once: at 11:15. Ludo went in to quiet him, and Doon went back down after being assured that Daddy's promise that he could come see the new baby at 7am would be honored. Carin was out on the balcony and heard our whoop when Dylan was born, and figured Doon waking up just then wasn't coincidence; the brothers already had some connection going. Doony certainly was all smiles to greet the new baby this morning, even if his attention turned back to his new Yugioh cards and birthday toys fairly quickly.

 

 

Doon is 6

Doon's about to begin his first day of being 6. There'll be a party this afternoon, but this morning he's off to school in the box bicycle with Mommy at the helm and a load of birthday goodies for his school friends. Dutch tradition dictates that Doon brings treats for his classmates, rather than the other way around.

He also got the traditional Italian 6 pulls on the ear as well as the American 6 spankings.

This morning he opened some of his presents, including some great ones from Chris and Abby -- the little Dutch sailing ship looks just like the real thing. It was the first toy he wanted to play with -- straight up to the bath, where he discovered that the jib unhooked and you could put the mast down for going under bridges. Coincidentally, this had been the topic of discussion last weekend as we looked at some of the tall masted ships in Amsterdam's canals.
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T he party was a hoot. We don't know where he's getting his British locution from -- it could be Tweenies on BBC, could be Jenny, Alan, Nathalie and Nathan, but the statement of the day was "Mommy, I think this is going to be a lovely birthday". It certainly was. Here's a handful of pix. We were generally too busy running races and balloon stomps to take pictures, but Doon took a few to help out... he's a little dickens with the camera, that boy.

Thanks everyone for the super cards and letters and gifts making the boy's last birthday as an only child a special one.

 

The Belly! (and the new floor!)

A friend says "pregnant women are great at construction projects" and he's soooo right. Marth put new floors down in the bedroom and hall and somehow that big ol' belly didn't slow her down a bit. She's moved on to the garden now while chipping away at the nursery.

How do you spell "nesting?"

I've finally caught up with getting pix of our trip to Bristol and Wales to see Duncan, Alayne, and Adam. Thomas the Tank Engine was in town and we had a great afternoon in the ruins of Tintern Abbey. Slideshow is here.

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's Riding!

 

31st of May, 2004: Big day for the Doonster. The training wheels came off the bike, and he didn't. We've been working on this for a while, getting the trainers up higher and higher. A couple of his friends have already been biking to school, and while he's pretty advanced in a lot of areas, bike riding for some reason has been a lagger. I figured he was ready last week, but told him he was the boss about when to take the trainers off. (And that he could have a super-big chocolate milkshake when he did.)

Well this morning we went on a mission to buy milk and he biked alongside. Halfway home he said he was ready. The fact that we were just up the street from the milkshake store is purely coincidence, I'm sure. But the fact that I actually had an adjustable wrench in my pocket is nothing short of miraculous. I'd been inadvertantly carrying it around since our last trip to the playground.

He was up and going in nothing flat. I took the video with my phone (Sony Ericsson P900, for you geeks who need to know), so the quality ain't great, but I was button-popping proud of my boy and glad we got the moment for posterity.

Easter 2004

Hmmmm, guess we're going to have to change the name of this site to "Doony and ? News" come September! Yup, for anybody we haven't told, emailed, or jumped up and down in front of, Doony's getting a little brother or sister on or around September 10th. (Guaio is trying out the new belly-shelf under construction in the picture above).

Meantime, it's total chocolate overdose day.

Charlie: The Easter Bunny doesn't wear clothes

Doon: Yes he does. I have a picture of him in a vest.

Charlie: My mommy says he doesn't wear clothes

Doon: My mommy says he does.

Pix here.

Whoo-hoo, Christmas!

It was one big yippy -- too many presents, too much food, too much eggnog: all in all, a perfect proportion of too-muchness. The only near disaster was me almost producing a green turkey for Christmas eve. See, me being a great follower of the Joy of Cooking school of turkey roasting, I cook the bird under a coarse cloth soaked in olive oil -- evens out the moistness so you can cook the dark meat to doneness without drying out the white meat. Tip: Never, never use a new cloth for this, or one that doesn't have color-fast dyes.

Now you'd expect that after years of tent-roasting turkey, I'd have encountered this particular problem before. And you'd expect the authors of the definitive idiot's guide ("How to crack an egg" gets a half page, don't forget) would warn against it, but alas, when I went to baste the bird after half an hour it looked like a goofy St. Patrick's day postcard. Fortunately, a drain of the first juice and a paper towel pat later all was well, but it was a close one.

Thanks to everyone who sent Doony presents -- he's still unpacking stuff! Some pix here.

And Hey Mr Big, the Dooooood sez THANKS.

Tonsils out!

Doon recovers with pals after having his tonsils and adenoids out. He was a total trooper. A few more pix here. He's just coming off the popsicle diet now, and doing fine.

We celebrated Sinter Klaas on 5th December with ex-pat friends in the Dutch style: everyone draws a name a few weeks before and has to craft a present and a poem for them. The wrappings are a little unusual -- our party featured presents wrapped in a paper maché cat and fish, a computer made of boxes (guess who that was for ;-) and Marth's Giant Thumb, Amphora and Dracula:

Then the doorbell rings, and mysteriously a bag of toys is left on the porch by the Sint. Doony was nearly hitting the ceiling he was so excited. Lucky kid, he gets that (preceded by presents in his shoe every so often the week before) AND Santa Claus on the 25th.

Tigger goes for a ride with Doony's remote control car on an autumn day in Amsterdam. Just after this picture was taken, Doon did his first ever solo on the bicycle without training wheels over an appreciable distance. His best friend Charlie is not only moving back to Amsterdam, but moving into the house next door. And tomorrow begins a week's mid-term holiday from school. Life is good!

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5th Birthday

September 1st: Doon was awake at 6:01 this morning, his birth hour, in the room where he was born five years ago.

He's in the middle of a growth spurt, eating like crazy, adjusting to a school class with different faces and several of his friends moved on to another group, coping with emotional zigs and zags and the frustration of wanting things to be his way but finding they seldom are, yet stubbornly sticking to the idea that they ought to be. It's a tough age.

So his Birthday was a magical respite from all that. He wanted Yugioh cards and a skateboard, and both his wishes came true. He had a great day at school and a morning and afternoon of presents at home with his friend Dulgan. He brought "shark sandwichs" to school (cookie cutter-cut out cheese and salami sandwichs -- no actual sharks were killed) and compiled the list of friends he wants to come to his party on Saturday. His newest superhero, DareDevil from Julia, got to meet all his other superheros including a new flying Jack Stone Lego (we love Lego) and a new Power Ranger from Max. He showed Dulgan his excellent new computer games from Julia, and he got to talk to grandma and "Favorite Aunt Molly" on the phone, and he got some great E-cards.

His balance on the skateboard is pretty impressive. He's learning to recognise and spell more and more words thanks to Aunt Nancy's early birthday present: Boggle Jr., which opens up whole new fields of play with the alphabet, and his Dutch came back as if by magic within days of his return. He plays translator between Dad and Dulgan, who speaks Mongolian and Dutch but only a little English. My Mongolian being a little rusty.

The other night I told him we loved him to the moon and back and he said "Daddy, which is farther, the stars or the moon?" I said, "The stars." "Then I love you and mommy to the STARS and back."

A few pix are here.

Travelin'

Doon's getting ready to go to Grandma's House for his annual accent-flattening vacation. It will be interesting to see how he adjusts to people his size who don't speak Dutch. Duncan Currie and his boy Adam were here visiting last weekend, and Doon's natural presumption is that if he can look it in the eye, it speaks Dutch instead of English.

From the obvious statements department: nobody back in the States will recognise this child from a year ago. We just got his report card back from school and he's doing great. Mixing his languages a bit, but getting on really well with the other kids, emotionally stronger, and fascinated by the magic of letters and words. He can read some simple words not like "on" and "off" (hey, start 'em off binary, that's my motto!), knows most of his letters most of the time, and can sound out simple words phonetically, when coaxed.

He's long ago exceeded his parents' ability in Dutch, and for the first time a couple weeks ago he translated for me unprompted. We were getting roses for Mother's Day, and the guy in the flower kiosk said something I didn't catch as we were walking away. I presumed it was just a pleasantry. Doony must have known I didn't get it, and decided I needed to, so he tugged on my sleeve and said "he told you to look out for the prickers!"

We're all looking forward to vacation. The big feature is the wedding of Martha's brother Tim and soon-to-be sister-in-law Leslie. Doon gets to be in the wedding party, so we'll be seeing pix of him here in a penguin suit before too long.

Here's a short video clip I snagged with my digital camera from a trip out to our friend Jenny's house out in Muidenberg a couple weeks back.

 

Hoppy Easter!




Winter Vacation!

The first weekend of Doon's Winter Break we went out to Carin and Ludo's farm in Limberg, in the south of The Netherlands near the German border. Carin and Ludo used to be our upstairs neighbors in Amsterdam, and their four year old, Charlie, is Doony's "Girlfriend." Jos and Rini joined us with their two kids, Ludo and Kees. We had an outstanding time -- great weather, great company, and the kids entertaining each other. Have a look at the slideshow.

Oh, and, Uncle Jim? You better be ready for our little card shark:

Open House at Doony's School

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Doony took this pic. That's his teacher Aath in the upper right.

"In the Bathroom" is the title of this series of stories and drawings. Doon's is second from the left and "the blue squiggles are toys" sez he.

His classroom.

 

Doon took this picture too -- of his first teacher Olga.

 

Snow in Amsterdam!

 

It's pretty unusual for us to get snow here. I can hear the Seneca Falls contingent saying "You call THAT snow?" But hey, if there's enough to make a snowball, Doon's getting his snowsuit on and headin' out the door.

Even when he's got CHICKENPOX!!!

Merry Christmas AND Congratulations Mikey and Holly!

Counting down to Santa Claus' arrival, Mikey and Holly got their big present when baby Carly was born on the 22nd. Wahoooooo Doray! (Dr. Seuss-speak for yippeee!)

Santa Claus ran into a little problem late last night when it came time to set up Doony's Radio Flyer Bicycle all the way from America. Now, Santa's a pretty well traveled guy, and he knows that there's different standards and sizes in the US for video and DVDs and electricity and milk and just about everything. But when it came time to pump up the tires on Doony's new bike, he discovered there are also: Different valve and pump fitting standards! (Hey, Lisa, you work in pumps -- can't you write a memo and fix this????) Santa stayed a long, long, long time trying to improvise a solution, but in addition to all the bizillions of presents under the tree, Doony got two flat tires for Christmas.

Here's some pix. Molly was on the phone already early this morning our time, (half past ridiculous in the morning, US time) wanting more. Sheesh, she got Doony to sing her the kitty-kat jingle bells song on the phone, what more does she want?

Doony says: Hi Julia!!! Happy Christmas! I have a cuddly puppy, a cuddly horse, and a cuddly kitty and I want you to come to my house next week on Saturday to play with them.

 

The Zoo: October 2002

 

The Zoo is one of Doony's favorite places. He likes the playgrounds there a lot, and sometimes it's a struggle to get him to actually go see the animals.

  

 

On our last trip, Doony rattled a cage housing a ring-tailed lemur (a "Zaboomafoo" to Doony, after the hero of a PBS kids nature program). What a surprise. The lemur was NOT pleased. He let out a roar like a lion, sending Doony running behind me for cover. But he was giggling when he got over the fright. "Daddy, there's a lion in that monkey!"

Last weekend we had a sunny Sunday on Janet Dalziel's sailboat.

Nothin like messin around in a boat, and doing some fishin'

Didn't catch a thing, but ain't he handsome?

 


Queen's Day 2002 

 

Well, it took a while to file the latest Amsterdam Confidential! Between tryin to keep up with our wild and craaaaaaaaazy guests AND Doony, the webpage didn't have much of a chance. Especially after those late night Gin games where Brian kept getting whomped...

So here they are: Pics of the trip, the Anniversary Cruise, and Queen's day 2002.

We had a great time playing host to these two. Marth took them out to see the Lord of the Dance and Brian and Jim had a great day out up on the North Sea island of Texel. Man, you've heard about fish that got away? On this trip, the entire Fishing Boat got away. So we had an excellent time talking over beers in various locations around the island about the fish we've caught in the past, the fish we would have caught if the boat had gone, and the fish we'll catch in the future. And the ones we'll land for Uncle George.

March 2002

Wengen Winter Ski Holiday 

Our Winter holiday in Wengen, Switzerland rocked. We went with friends Alan & Jenny, their kids Natalie and Nathan, their friends Mirthe, Reinier, and Martijn, and Lisa and Jake Fitzgerald hooked up with us for a couple days as well. Wengen is in the Jungfrau region of Switzerland, where the ski scenes and bad guys' lair from the James Bond movie "On Her Majesty's Secret Service" were filmed.  It's also the place where a handful of crazy British gentry claim to have "invented" downhill skiing around the turn of the century when they convinced the cog train driver to keep his train going in winter so they could ride up and ski down.

It was Doony's first time on skis, though the little red sled with the green steering wheel was much more to his liking. It was the first time he'd really had significant snowfall to play in, and he tried it all: from the rollicking snowball fights through the town (he was great at charging and flushing out snipers) to snow angels to sledding to skating to snowforts and snowmen he was a laughing happy snow puppy.

He had great company. Dutch kids are incredible with little ones. Part of their schooling involves them having to look after kids in lower grades, so they actually get an education in child care. Doon was what Martha calls "a love sponge" all week. Natalie and Mirthe were giving him treats and cuddles and heaps of attention. The boys --Nathan, Martijn, Reinier -- gave him lots of snowball target practice and rough and tumble fun as well -- he didn't want to be left out of anything, and at every turn he'd be yelling "Hey, GUYS! Wait up!" And I think he thinks Alan is his personal punching bag -- the two of them matched superpowers all week.

The snow was fabulous. The visibility wasn't so great at times, but when you're skiing on pillows, who cares?

Natalie and Mirthe celebrated their 16th birthdays during the trip, which meant Doon got to give (and open) presents. There were balloons and candles and cake too. How great can a trip get?

Click here for a bunch of pix.

 

January 2002:

Merrry Christmas & a Happy New Year!

Well, we're finally catching up on some of the photos from our trip to Italy, Halloween, and few more christmas snaps. You can see them all here.

At right is Doon in front of a Christmas tree we planted in Paciano in 1993. (Yes, we're guilty of introducing non-native species into the Italian countryside, but don't it look happy!!!)

Doon's third Christmas! Having too much fun! Here's a quick slideshow of the big morning, and here's the boy and his Buzz, and from all of us a very Merry Merry Christmas!

 

November 2001:

Jenny, Doon with twahbehwee popsicle, and Jenny's daughter Nathalie.

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

We had our Turkey Day a couple weeks ago, so that we could share a feast with our friend Kieran. He set off yesterday on a four month voyage to save the whales in the Southern Pacific Ocean, so we moved the calendar a little bit. Over here, of course, Thanksgiving can slip by pretty much unnoticed. Art Buchwald's "Jour de Merci" column appears in the Herald Tribune, but beyond that it's other harvest festivals that are marked: the fate of the pilgrims and their first harvest isn't holiday material. So Jenny was our reason for thanks this year. She put on THE FEAST -- complete from a turkey that Norman Rockwell would have painted smaller to make it believable, through cranberry sauce, squash, stuffing, every vegetable in Holland, all in amounts that would have fed Plymouth Colony twice over. As I leaned back fit to burst I said "the only thing missing is the pumpkin pie." At which point, natch, appeared not only a glorious home-baked pumpkin pie, but a rhubarb crumble as well. I had no choice: the only eloquent response was to fall out of my chair.

Marth and I were the only Americans at the table -- we ate with Uschi, a German who lives in Amsterdam, Leslie, a Brit who lived most of her life in Surinam, Jenny who was born British but studied and lived in Canada and, like her British-born husband Alan, has spent most of the last decade in Holland. Kieran is Irish-born British-raised and now lives in Alaska where he's become so Americanized he has a favorite pitcher (Mussina) and was agonizing throughout dinner about the fate of the Yanks. (Ok, Kellerman, cut it out: I can HEAR you gloating!)

My point? We were all homeless persons, or at least stateless persons, celebrating what's usually billed as an American holiday. But it's also a harvest holiday -- the celebration of the hard work of gathering coming to an end, the year's work put away in the cellar, and the chances of surviving the coming winter greatly improved. Marth and I can remember from Olive picking in Italy how much can depend on those few weeks in autumn when the crop comes in. Everything -- an entire year's labor -- is riding on those last moments when it can all be lost, when you work from sunup to sundown in a race against the weather, so tired you go to sleep feeling the ladder round in your feet, still picking in your twilight dreams, and hearing the sounds of olives falling all night, until the sun gets you up to do it all again. We got a glimpse of the weight of harvest times of old, and when we reminded ourselves that it was only a year's production of olive oil that stood in the balance, we could only imagine the weight of knowing that it was your survival on the line.

That first Thanksgiving must have been a heck of a party, but I bet there were a lot of tired Pilgrims falling asleep before the pumpkin pie rolled out.

For us, we could be thankful this year for good friends, and for the great good luck of living among people who've lived all over the world and who can still sit down to table across the strangeness of our differences and celebrate the same human experience no matter what national stamp we put on it. We're all just working to survive the winter, to put as much food in the cellar as we can, to outrun death and sorrow, get over the setbacks, and to savor the harvest.

Our thoughts are with all of you today, and especially Mike and Holly.

 


 

October 2001:

Doony's First Platform Game...

About a month after Doon turned three came the moment every dad looks forward to in his son's march to manhood. I may have marked the calendar when he took his first step, when he ate his first solid food, when he uttered something that, if you listened to it with your head sideways and repeated fifteen times, just might have been his first word.

But nothing can bring a tear to my eye like the memory of watching Doon slowly grasping the concept of holding down the right arrow and THEN pressing jump.

It happened like this.

By the time Doon was two and half, he was beginning to get the rudiments of mouse movement down. At first I'd position the mouse for him and he'd do the click, ("Diz buhtun?" "yes, THAT button"). Whoosh, the paint brush on the screen would turn Thomas the Tank Engine from coloring-book-blank-white to blue.

That was fun for a while, but pretty soon he just had to be in the driver's seat. At first he wasn't doing any clicking or dragging, but he'd soon gotten past having to look at his hand and was moving the mouse and watching the screen. I was coaching his movements toward an icon, and said: "Almost, now move the mouse *up*!"

His eyes remained glued to the screen while he lifted the mouse into the air *up* off the mouse mat. Well, yep, that IS what I said, but not what I meant.

We downloaded a "Concentration"-like matching game and pretty soon he was swooping the mouse across the screen and every now and then by sheer luck actually clicking something that reacted. Now we're talking. I left him alone with the game one day, to find when I came back that he'd not only mastered the game, he'd figured out the reset button. In an effort to help out, I kept trying to suggest completely wrong moves and talk him out of perfectly good ones, till I accepted that he probably has a better visual memory than I do ("It's just one of those skills that are stronger in pre-literates" I sniffed to Martha).

From there, of course, it was off to the web. We'd been going to various sites for a while with games or cartoons, me doing all the keyboarding and mousing and clicking, Doon just pointing at the screen (and leaving a bright prismatic smudge of droolly scum), but suddenly it was all "Me want to do it."

So I put together a page of his favourite sites with nice big pictures to navigate, and in that age old ritual passed on from Father to son, stayed up late one night learning how to hack my browser's interface so that I could add a lovingly crafted custom button for my boy, a nice big "D" for Doony's Links. (Someday, years from now, I'll drag out an old screenshot and he'll punch my shoulder and say, hey, Dad, remember when you made that? My first personalized icon).

He was off. "Wanna go...there!" he'd hover his mouse in indecision, then expertly zoom in and click as if he'd been doing it since he was three.

Mostly we were going to the same old places we'd been when I was navigating, but now he was behind the mousewheel. I was beginning to suffer a bit from the repetitions of the Pooh Balloon game, the Dora the Explorer in the spooky forest, Blues Clues Musical Instruments, and TeleTubby hide-and-seek.

But before long, he was going places I hadn't set up in advance. And that's how he found the Buzz Lightyear platform game. "Whatzz dis?" "This is a *platform* game.

Your Uncle Paddy in Italy is a veteran of some of the best of these, and someday maybe he'll tell you the story of how he found Kuribo's shoe in Super Mario Brothers 3"

"Game?"

"Yep. Look. This key makes Buzz run this way... and this key makes Buzz run this way... and this key makes him jump."

"JUMP!"

He didn't care about collecting points, he didn't care about clearing obstacles. He just wanted to jump. So we rearranged the chairs, I took the right hand side of the keyboard with the arrow keys, Doony took the Left Shift button for the jump. We each did a quick simultaneous stretch and knuckle crack, and hit the play button. I ran right and told Doony when to JUMP! which he basically was doing all the time, leading to some tense moments when we needed to have our feet on the ground. I found myself barking a little bit with the intensity of the moment, bit my lip, and looked to see if he was going to go into his sad pout and run for the corner, but he was all focus -- he understood we were fighting for our three lives (plus an additional life if we captured two badges) and old dad was just a little less than cool in combat. We ran, we got hit by deadly bouncing balls, we didn't get further than a few screens before we were wiped out. But we got up again, we got farther, and then we found... the battery.

"Whutz daht?"

"I don't know. JUMP!"

And as Doony executed a perfect jump and Buzz's arc landed him square on the battery, the "Laser Activated" light came on.

"Whutz daht?"

"Laser. For blasting obstacles. See that ball? Hit this key here."

And as Doony's hand slapped down on the spacebar, Buzz crouched, pointed one arm at the oncoming lethal globe and with his other hand activated the laser in his space suit. A double red pulse of light streaked out in front of him and knocked the obstacle out of his way. Doon's face lit up in a giant laughing smile as he proceeded to just keep slapping that spacebar to watch the laser fire.

We kept going. We kept falling into the same darn hole again and again after that, Doony now so into firing the laser that he'd get confused and fire rather than jump whenever the gap was coming at us. I broke a sweat when suddenly we found ourselves clear of the obstacle with two Buzz lives left, a fully charged laser, and, suddenly, gleaming there in front of us, impossibly beautiful, the exit to the next layer. "Jump, Doony, Jump!" I screamed, forgetting all voice control as we teamed up to make Buzz fly from his high platform, bounce once to a lower, and then, smooooooooth, rightinto the exit panel.

The moment's mental sound-track was the crescendo of 'Thus Spake Zarathustra', the camera of memory zooming in for a close up, slowmo, of Doon's three year old hand going up and slapping against mine in our victory high five. He was jumping up and and down yelling "again! again!"

You might be wondering about a possible ethical conflict I might be feeling about Doony exploring ritualized violence at this age, and with the world doing what it's doing right now? Strangely, some of the most peaceable people I've ever met have been known to stay up into the wee hours playing Duke Nukem or similar mayhem scenarios. I hope this little world of toy lasers and bonus lives is as close as Doon will ever have to get to real combat --and would that it were so for everybody sleeping tonight in fear.

--Brian

September 2001:

Doon's third Birthday was a great event. We went camping with the neighbors way up in the North of the Netherlands, at a farm near the sea. Doon's first night in a tent, and his first Dutch Birthday party. Lots of fun! Birthday pix here.

SUMMERTIME!!!!!!!!!!

Doon is back in Amsterdam now but he had a grrrrrrreat time this summer. He's having fun with Charlie and his other friends here, but he asks about and misses Grandma and Uncle Jim and Molly and Max and the Three Ks and Julia. Yesterday he thought he saw Christina walking by the house and yelled for Mom to come see.

There's no sandbar here -- but we've taken him swimming at two local pools to try and keep his love of the water alive. And there's no Roseland Waterpark but there's a nearby outdoor wading pool with a very cool octopus slide. Roseland was the big hit of the summer. When I was putting together the webpage Doony was looking at pictures from the two days he spent there and he wanted to "go back now pwease pwease pwease." It was about ten o'clock at night, and I had to remind him that Roseland, like everything else from the summer, was "two cars and two planes way way far away."

You can see summer pics here.

 

May 2001: The Haircut

Martha writes: oh my god. my baby isn't a baby anymore. I just cut his hair. what a cutie. He looks like a little man now....with a bad haircut, instead of my fluffy puppy. I'm near to tears. He's growing too fast. and to top it off he has his father's extremely straight hair so it is impossible to cut. every line shows. No more curls on his neck. I'm going to pout all day....all month maybe.

Brian writes: Every day a new milestone. Doon's bedtime story begins "Once upon a time, in the hundred acre woods, there lived a little bear named Pooh, and his best friend Tigger. Every Thursday, Pooh and Tigger would take a nice long walk. On this par-ti-cu-lar Thursday, Pooh said to Tigger..." Doon says the bits in green. Sometimes it's a Pooh story, sometimes it's a Buzz Lightyear story, sometimes it's some other character that's on his mind. But the adventure is always something about Doon's day, which he picks out before hand: Pooh and Tigger riding their bicylces to the playground and going 'round round round', Buzz Lightyear taking a Thomas Train to visit a Very Big Boat, Tigger riding on Daddy's bicylce into town to get a Pokemon ball.

The haircut, despite its heavy significance to his mom and dad, looks great.

 

Queen's Day 2001

Steve Kellerman writes: WHAT?!?!? Whoooooaaaaa, this is BIG...REAL BIG!!!! Hey, are they, er... I mean, Hey Mimmy & Lizzy, R U-2 headin' over for Queen's Day??? DAMN STRAIGHT, I'm jealous...infact, I'm so jealous I've even forgot about how pissed I am about that Stinky Stanky game yesterday!!! Marph, I want pix!!!! Bri, I want "Confidentials"!!!! Timmy, I wanna swizzle in every beer you order!!!!! ( I promise not to chug!!!) Seriously tho, that's great...y'all are gonna have a blast...and yes, please,pleeze,PAH-LEEZE...SWIZZLE ME TILL THE COWS COME HOME!!!!!!!!

OK, Swizzle-man: See the work in progress Queens Day 2001 Page

Easter 2001

Easter Sunday 15 April

Martha: Hoppy Easter! Doon has been so excited for Peter Cottontail. He's been telling stories about him the past 4 nights. He is still working on the egg hunt, taking breaks to play. He knew Peter brought eggs and PRESENTS and I think he envisioned a Santa sort of windfall. I had to explain that a little bunny with a basket/wheelbarrow/backpack can't carry as much as a big man with flying reindeer and limo-like vehicle. He is having a ball though and had alot of fun painting the eggs last night. Murphy & Guaio have completely freaked/frisked out. They love holidays, eggs, and BUNNIES! Pictures Here

Saturday 14 April

Brian: We were all down in Italy in early April for David McTaggart's funeral. Tough on all of us emotionally -- David was our friend, my boss, our landlord, and primary source of inspiration and entertainment when we were living in Paciano, and a huge influence on me for more than a decade. His life was full of stories, and you can read some of them at the memorial sites set up by Greenpeace and Michael Nielsen.

While it may not have been the best circumstances, we did get a chance to catch up with lots of friends we'd not seen in many years (in some cases, a decade or more!). Doon was a bit fevered and not at his best, but he loved staying at "Pina's House" (Il Casale restaurant, run by a friend of ours) where we spent last Easter with Duncan and Alayne and Adam.

Yesterday Doon rode his red tricycle all the way to the playground -- his personal best distance record for outdoor pedaling.

Tim and Leslie are coming over for Queen's Day this year -- the biggest party in Amsterdam. You can see previous Queen's Day visitor photoalbums from Steve Kellerman's visit and Molly's trip.

Doon leaves apples for SinterKlaas' Horse

Christmas Day, December 25, 2000

Wow what a day! Doon has been jumping up and down, opening a small mountain of presents, watching his new videos, reading his new books, bowling over his bunnies, choo-chooing his trains, dumping his dumptrucks, fishing for fish, parking his new cars in his new parking garage... magical magical stuff. He talked to Oma, Grandma, Jake, Lisa, Julia, & Dave so far, and even said a passable "Mooory Chuzmuz" to Grandma. We put some stills up at the xmas page, and you can view video here:

Cable or dial-up speed on Real Media Player

Sunday, December 24, 2000

Incredible! Snow in Amsterdam on Xmas Eve! Doony was catching flakes on his tongue this morning. Even looks like it's going to stick for a little while. There's some thin ice on some of the still canals, but nothing skatable yet. Next week we're going to a rink over by the Museumplein, though, to see how Doony takes to Ice Hockey.

In Muldoon tradition, we had Bloody Marys this morning (though in our case it wasn't medicinal, like SOME Muldoons who were performing or watching the Flea Market show at the Flats in Seneca Falls last night). Doony had his own little tomato juice and celery cup so he wouldn't feel left out. Hated it!

Turkey's in the oven (we're having chestnut dressing this year -- man what a pain it is to shell chestnuts!), Doon's asleep for his nap, and I'm just ducking by here to post a couple more photos to the xmas page. Molly, we'll try (really) to keep up with your Photo Jones over the next 48 hours, and if Max and Megan are up for a little technotweaking, we'll give live video a shot on xmas day. Merry merry everybody!

Friday, December 22, 2000

Christmas Cookies! We made up a batch this week with Doony at the rolling pin.

Whenever Marth and I think of Christmas Cookies, the definitive memory is of the VanKirk family recipe. Between Ma and Pa Van Kirk and their seven kids, the VK household used to be a regular Christmas Cookie factory at this time of year. Thing is, they made a plate of cookies for everybody they knew in Seneca Falls, and they knew the entire town! So the site of the VanKirk-mobile pulling up into the driveway and one of the kids jumping out in the snow to deliver the cookies was a tradition we all looked forward to. And those were some tasty cookies! Cookie cuttered, frosted, decorated with those little silver balls and sprinkles, delivered right to the door.

Doon is stringing words together these days, and he calls out for us with a very clear "Daddy, where arrrrre yooooooo?" He says "Mamma" like Elvis. He can count up to six apples. He's got a mean goal kick in soccer and a passable hook shot at Nerf basketball. He wears a Jeter t-shirt and hits around .500. He clicks the mouse at the Thomas the Tank Engine site at one of the Flash games he likes there.

And speaking of Flash games, Doony invented one. Well, Mom and Dad put it together for him, but the concept was his. You can have a play here. Merry Christmas!!!

Sunday, December 10 2000

Doon and Martha picked out the Christmas tree last week and Dad brought it home on the bike on Friday. We spent yesterday putting the lights on and today decorating it.

Doon put his wooden shoes by the fireplace on December 5th, which is SinterKlaas here in Holland. He left apples in the shoes for SinterKlaas' horse, and when he woke up in the morning he found the apples gone, and a toy in the shoes. He says "CWAWS" whenever he sees a Santa now, and he loves the tree and lights and the prospect of, very soon now, *presents.*

 

The Doon Diaries: November 2, 2000

Aunt Molly has been asking for video of Doon saying hello to her for a while now. This link is to a 6 Megabyte avi video file, (or a 371 K WMV file if you have Windows Media Player 7) so don't try downloading it from anything slower than a cable modem unless you want to drink a LOT of coffee waiting for it. Priceless, though -- he managed to say Hi Aunt Molly completely backwards, rendering it as "Molly Aunt Hi," with about the cutest look of self-satisfaction/rebellion/did I do ok imaginable. Despite the terribleness of two, what an incredibly magic age.

Yankees Win World Series!!! Doon Wins Florida Fishing Trip! Uncle Jim slated to lose next three years of Gin games!

October 22, 2000

Go Yankees!!!!! Brian can only get the audio of the games via the web, and they start at 3am Amsterdam time. Early morning coffee in front of the computer for the final innings instead of Buds in front of TV for the whole game. Not quite the same -- but WHO CARES!!!! What a start. A Yanks win and the longest series game in history. No matter who wins, this is gonna be a hummer. But the Yanks will win. Doon says so.

Molly has been reminding me to get audio of Doon saying "W" up on the web. Given all the time she spends making me rhubarb pies, I figured I could spend some time figuring out how to get the digital camera and streaming web video working. Update is at the Yakkity Yak page.

October 5, 2000

Doon has a friend who lives upstairs, Charlie, the daughter of our neighbors Ludo and Carin. Charlie came over to play the other day and we caught some shots on the digi cam. Have a look!

Max just sent pix of the Bass which Brian, Tee, and Jim caught last summer -- you can see the ones that didn't get away here.

September 2000

Great news! Doon's heart condition has stabilized, and no immediate intervention is needed. It's still classed as "significant" and needs to be watched twice a year, but it isn't worsening. We got a long, comforting phone mail message from Dr. Howard Zucker, a pediatric heart specialist who helped the child of a friend of Tim and Leslie's. We were totally impressed with him calling us from the States and giving us the benefit of his experience.

The boy came back from Seneca Falls with a whole new range of stuff he can do and say, from the inimitable "dubbadubbadubbayoo" ("W") to an amazing batting average at "Spoon Ball" -- an invention of his which is just like baseball except played with a large wooden spoon and a big foam ball. Derek Jeter probably started this way.

His current obsession is Thomas the Tank Engine. He takes his "choo choo" everywhere with him, sleeps with it, watches Thomas videos and plays Thomas computer games on the web.

Thanks everybody for your thoughts and good wishes -- we're so relieved.

August 2000

Doony and Marth are in the Falls, and Brian's back in Amsterdam now. Have a listen to what Doon's been saying at the Yakity Yak page.

 

July 2000

Seneca Falls, Here we Come!!! We'll be landing in Rochester August 4th, Brian will stay until the 20th, and Doon and Marth will be around for Labour Day. Looking forward to sun, lake, and kick-back time. We think if Doon wants to fit in back in the States he will have to get out of the Dutch native dress he's adopted here and put on his farmer overalls, his Yankees hat, and, errr, lose the other wooden shoe.

Doon Diary: June 2000

The Euro 2000 season is upon us: Soccer, Football, whatever you want to call it, we've all got the fever. Martha is betting on the Holland games down at the butcher shop. Free steak if you guess the score! Doony is cheering on his two teams: the Italians and the Dutch, and has learned to say GOAL! like a proper little europuppy.

Mike Muldoon's friends Rob, Dave, and Scott have come over to follow the competition, and stayed with us at the start of their trip and will be back at the end of it. They went down to our local bar and watched the opening match, Belgium vs Sweden. They probably know more of our neighbors than we do -- the entire bar was shocked to discover there were actually three Americans on the planet who knew something about football.

Click here for a real short video clip of how Doony celebrated one of Holland's three goals against Denmark and Italy's goal against Belgium! (You'll need Real Player 7 or better to view this: click the icon below to get it)

Glorious weekend; we constructed Doony's Jungle Gym Fort and slide. New Pix here.

Doon Diary: April 30, 2000

We're just back from Easter in Paciano! What a great time. We saw almost the entire crowd that promised back in 1994 to join up again for Easter 2000, including Dave and Lyn from the UK, Duncan (now with his wife Alayne and son Adam) from New Zealand, Paddy & Suzi, Charles & Pet, Rowan and Mathilda, Francesco, Pina, and a score of other friends old and new.

Don Doonino loved it -- especially the Italian women of all ages that were cooing over him. He was a little Marco Polo, boldly exploring everywhere we went, practicing running up and down slopes and climbing onto things.

He picked up "please" over the holiday along with about a half dozen new words, and learned to wave and throw kisses in three languages: Bye bye, Ciao Ciao, and Tschuss! His balance keeps getting better and better, and he was sharing and playing ball well with Adam and the other kids he met in Italy.

For a slide show of the Easter 2000 trip, click here.

1997 The Pond
April 2000 The Pond Gone

April 8, 2000: Springtime in Amsterdam! Over the last few weekends we filled in the pond, put up a new fence, and Marth spent today putting in the turf Doony is presenting above right. The Pond was fun, but a hazard for a 19 month old, and Marth has her heart set on a jungle jim for the boy in our "yard." So out with the old. The cats are psyched too.

Doon's collection of words has grown. He can ask for "more" and "essss" (yes) very clearly, uses "bahl" for "bottle", "ball", "blue" or "apple," and will occassionally pull out about a dozen others inlcuding up, down, kitty, hat, all done, there, out, and supercilious. Ok, I may have been imagining the last one.

The only time I get to play guitar any more is command performances for Doony. Very rewarding. He spins around the room dancing, claps when I finish and looks up at me with big eyes and says "More?"


 

 

We went to see David William Bell on Saturday. He's the brand new
son of Kevin and Angela, our friends from Alaska and Puglia. Doon was
excited to meet a new friend, and Marth and Brian were amazed to remember
how tiny and lightweight babies can be -- and Doon once was!

Qui ci sono piú foto del picollo "bell-ino"

Here you can see more photos of the Baby Bell


 

Martha and Doon just got back from FLORIDA where Doony had a great time soaking in the vitamin C and basking in attention beams from Uncles, Aunts, Cousins, and Gramma -- click here for a few photos. Brian's just back from China, India, Thailand, and a sailing trip across the Bay of Bengal aboard the Rainbow Warrior. Click here to hear one of his Illustrated Radio reports from the trip.

We're dealing with a bit of bad news right now, having heard last week that Doony's heart murmur is the result of a birth defect in his aortic valve -- it's a very common defect in which the valve is made up of two rather than three cusps, making the heart work a little harder to get the blood through the body. It's of moderate severity, may not require any attention at all, but we're a bit worried it wasn't heard at birth. It could mean that it was just missed, which we hope, or it could mean that it's become noisier in the past few months indicating a narrowing of the valve. We'll have another test in 6 months to see where it stands, and for now we'll just hope for the best. HE certainly hasn't gotten the news that anything is wrong. Still dancin', climbin', runnin', hoopin' and hollerin'!


 

 

Season's Greetings! Click Here for Doon's Animated Xmas Card
Christmas Day! You can see pix here. Hope everybody had a happy happy and Santa was good to you! He was very good to me and Doony! Doon's trying to teach the Furby Doonish, and the Furby is teaching him furbish. Me, I'm CONFUSED.


 

 

The Christmas tree is up! Marth and I decorated it last night after he'd gone to sleep, and this morning when we turned on the lights it was like switching on his smile: a big-eyed wonderous glowing wow.

Finally got around to scanning some recent photos, including a couple from Grandma's visit, which you can see here. I would have been quicker at this, but Aunt Molly's computer has been broken for the last couple weeks, so it's been harder for her to nag me!

December 20, 1999


Doon sure had a good time with Grandma. He wishes he were in Seneca Falls today for Charlie's 75th Birthday Party! Happy Birthday Charlie!


Grandma is here!! Doon greeted her at the airport with a smile that could have ended the Cold War.

This morning Marth and I were trying (very unsuccessfully) to sleep in while Doon ran around the bedroom, wanting to get out the door and start his day. He heard Grandma's voice through the door and piped up clear as a bell: GRANDMA! (The unspoken bit being: Come and Get Me I Want To Play!) That's a major expansion to his current vocabulary of "hot," "up," "hop," and several hundred words and expressions for "no."

You can see pix of our day out today in the Vondelpark, and Molly, this is to entice you back to Amsterdam real soon to sample what you missed last time:

November, 1999


 

This one's for you, Molly!

Been a long time since we've had an update here! We had a wonderful time in Montana this August watching Doony learn to walk, caught up with friends in Seneca Falls (and Ithaca for Birdy & Steve's Wedding), and have spent the early autumn here in Amsterdam watching Doony RUN around. He's got one word down pat now: HOT, which he learned at his Grandma Muldoon's every time he tried to grab a coffee cup from one of us. He uses it for everything that's dangerous, forbidden, or which hurts. The other day he was giving the cat a cuddle (which he does by pressing his forehead up against the cat), looked up at me, pointed to the cat's paws and said "HOT!" while vigorously nodding his head. He's had a couple love taps from those claws, so he's learning!

We've been busy with more home improvements. I finally sanded the old floorboards in our bedroom, Marth sealed them and then painted the room an eggplant-oyster combination. And Doony's "Big Boy Room" looks great, though I haven't gotten pix of it yet. Marth did a fabulous job finishing the big double doors, and while there's a few finishing touches left to do, it's turned out very well.


June 13, 1999: Went to Uitdam for a sail and a picnic today. Doony had his Life Jacket all ready to go out on his first sail with dad, but it was too rough so he stayed on land with mom. We had lots of fun with Daryl, Myriam, and Henry and Sebastian, though, revelling in the sunny summer weather. And one of the joys of summer that Doony discovered is ... WATERMELON! See pics of our day out here.

May 30, 1999: We're enjoying a GLORIOUS spate of beautiful weather here in Amsterdam, fitting for a good old American Memorial Day Weekend and the summer's kickstart. The Boy is getting more use out of his outdoor swing, and we had our first Bar-b-cue of the year out in the Garden yesterday. Doony really wanted one of those steaks, but we don't think his six teeth are up to that challenge yet.

He fell out of bed the other day, which was a scary new first -- he's got a primitive sort of crawl, sometimes backwards, going, just enough to get him into trouble!

Tomorrow he'll be starting his 9th Month, so here's some photos -- Hugs!


 

April 30, 1999: Auntie Molly arrived today along with Honorary Auntie Patty, just in time for the Queen's Day celebration. They brought great presents, including new clothes, cookies from Great Aunt Helen, a neato toy that Derek picked out for Doon, and more wires for Brian. Thanks!!!!

Doony is up to six teeth now, with a seventh coming in. He eats three square meals a day and weighs 10 and a half kilos (23 pounds!) -- a BIG boy! He's experimenting with new sounds, including something that's getting close to "Mammma" but with a few extra syllables thrown in. He also loves making a noise and waving his hand over his lips. Reverb!

He's completely mobile now in his walker, which he can race across the living room in, to the continuing dismay of the cats. NOTHING is safe...


Easter: Doon has a third tooth coming in (he's WAILING at this moment!). He's also embarking upon all kinds of adventures in verticality. He can stand holding himself up on the bars of his crib, he's got a walker now that he can push around backwards but not forwards yet, and he loves pushing up with his legs to an upright position. He cracks up with this huge smile whenever he finds himself standing, he's so darned pleased with himself!!!!! (From his point of view, he probably sees us crack up with these huge smiles whenever he finds himself upright because we're so darned pleased with him!!!)


 

UPDATE ALERT: Doon's got TWO TEETH!!! We thought he'd been a little cranky lately! UPDATE ALERT UPDATE: OK, for those of you (And you KNOW who you are) who've been overloading the server with demands to SEE those teeth -- when was the last time YOU tried to take a picture of two tiny chompers in the mouth of a 6-month old who has just discovered how to BITE???? Gimme a BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Update Alert Update Update: OK, the video Gods smiled on us for one brief millisecond:

March 7, 1999


Woooohoooohoooohooo!!! Starting with rice cereal and moving on to peas, Doony began eating solid food this week. And he actually swallowed the little bit that could be spared from the far more important task of getting it all over his face, his clothes, his mom and dad, the furniture, and the cat.

Everyone we talk to gets all wistful and says this time flies away too fast, and so we're trying to capture as much of it as we can (on audio tape, video tape, photos, jpegs, words, mushed pea sculptures...) and savor the passing. I was away for three days of meetings at the beginning of the week, and the boy looked so different when I came back -- he's got his thumb pressed hard on the fast-forward button, while we keep hitting pause.

Hope you enjoy the pix of Doon eating as much as we enjoyed the feedings.

Those of you who have sent us Guest Book messages know we had an animation of the Ally McBeal "Ukachucka" baby on the confirmation page. Well, I had to make room last week on the site for a big sound file, so I took the animation off, thinking nobody would notice. We promptly got the following harangue via the Guest Book:

Hey, so what happened to youze guyzez' cool 'Guestbook Message Sent' banner? You know, the cutsie-wutsie, coodley-doodley, bouncy-wouncy, hippity-hoppity, artsy-fartsy, rude, crude, and socially-nonredeeming (albeit, somewhat psycho-redemptive), odd...but, in a good way, Freudian-freakazoidal,cyber-zygoidal, virtual-neo-natalistic, ! how-now-'Buster Brown", Ally McSurreal...DANCING BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I miss him! BRING BACK THE BABY!!!!!!... And this time, super-impose Dude's face on him! If the DANCING BABY does not return, there's gonna be trubul, BIG trubul...with a capital K!!! Wadda' we want?: the DANCING BABY!!! Whenda' we want it?: NEXT WEBSITE HIT!!! Whozit gonna look like?: THE DUDE!!!!!!!!!

Who could resist such a challenge? You can see the results by filling out a Guest Book message and clicking SEND.

February 20, 1999

 


 

Doony is sitting in my lap as I type this, staring into the computer screen and waving his hands at the keyboard. Ahhh, a chip off the old pentium if every I saw one! Today was not Saturday but "Dadurday" -- the day I take Doony and let mom sleep late , get out of the house, and just generally take a break.

We went to the little park around the corner, watched somebody feeding the ducks, saw a big bird who flew over the stroller. Then we made peanut butter cookies and had a nap.

Doon's hair is growing back now. He lost almost all of it except a little orangutan tuft in the back. It's still impossible to tell what color it will be, though. He has light eyebrows, so it could come out blonde or red, but right now it's an unreadable mix that looks different depending on the light.

Big development news is that he's learned from his Mom how to stick out his tongue. It's good we're getting these essential life skills down early, and he's got it nailed. You stick your tongue out at him and he just cracks up and sticks his out back at you. Not very far, mind, but he's learning. His other big game now is "Take Dad's Glasses Off" which is minutes of fun for all...

The boy's a cyberstar, by the way! His photo is featured at the Official Flea Market Page! Check it out!

--January 23, 1999


Ooof. The day after Xmas EVERYBODY took sick, and stayed that way right through New Years. Even the midnight fireworks of Amsterdam (which could easily put Nato on Red Alert if it wasn't an annual event) didn't wake us out of our stupor. It's the GODZILLA FLU, and it just swatted away every form of advanced firepower we could throw at it. Even Turkey Soup didn't work against it. We took Doon to the doctor and all he could do was circle the boy's head with tiny toy helicopters making machine gun noises, prescribe some cough medicine and shrug -- "It's that time of year..." before being squashed by a gigantic lizardly foot that crashed through the ceiling.

Ah well, we had a great Christmas, and I'm sure we'll all be feeling better...soon.

Happy 1999!


Did we have fun back in Sneaky Falls for Thanksgiving? We sure did. Doon got to meet the grandmas and lots of relatives, we went bowling, we saw FLEA MARKET, and we ate WAY too much.

We're enjoying Doon's first Christmas, watching him learn to do a two-hand grab, support his weight (sort of) on both legs, and try out his range of noises. He came back from the US officially overweight!!!!!!I As mentioned in previous Doon Diaries, the dreaded BABY POLICE had sent us into a paroxysm (oh to rack THAT one up in a scrabble game some day) over Doon's low weight compared to the Average Healthy Dutch Child. Over Thanksgiving he zoomed up above the curve! I expected this would make the Baby Police furrow their brows with equal concern, since that seems to be their stock and trade, but they merrily told us it was nothing to worry about. Gosh, something not to worry about?

He just got his vaccinations, and we'd been reading the pro and con literature, the evidence of possible links to crib death, the warning signs of brain inflammation.... Shudder-inducing stuff. Of course, the stories of parents who DIDN'T get their kids inoculated and regretted it were pretty shudder-inducing as well. I suppose we just need to get used to the prospect of shuddering alot for the next 18 years or so.

Sorry for the long delay in the page update. I generally try to avoid the Molly-larm, which is the built in alarm system that this page comes with. If no images are uploaded within a certain amount of time, it begins to generate automatic emails which escalate from nudge to plea to whimper to... well, I never let it get much farther than that. I worry that she'll discover she has ultimate power if she ever threatens to stop making her rhubarb pies...


NEWS: We'll be in Seneca Falls for Thanksgiving, where y'all who'll be around can experience Doony at maximum bandwidth. Hitting town on or around the 19th and both of us will be there through Turkey Day weekend, Marth staying on into the first week in December, when I have to be back at work.

Doon had company yesterday when Charlie came downstairs for a visit. Charlie is the 5 month old daughter of our neighbors Ludo and Karin. You can see pix of them in the Playtime Pictures Page.

Thanks, Duncan, for the Caterpillar!!!!! He loves it!


You can see some of Doon's new and amusing faces in the latest pics page. He sure has a bunch of them!

Uncle John and Aunt Nancy were here last weekend, and we didn't get any pics!!! You'll just have to trust us on this one: we had a great time. Doon had a nice nap on his uncle's shoulder. Thanks to everybody who sent stuff over with them (they almost had to pay excess luggage!) and especially Kelley for all the neat stuff. And yes, We Got Milk! ;o)


See the picture panel for new pics of Doon as he turned one month old. His range of facial expression has gotten way bigger in the past few days (Martha insists she's seen smiles, but Brian won't believe it until he gets one himself!) and the boy had Marth cracking up with laughter for a solid 10 minutes yesterday morning.

We've gotten so many great gifts, and we haven't even begun the "Thank You" cards yet, but hang in there! Two really special hand made items came in, though, which are shown on the new picture page, one from Layla Rose Sawyer here in Amsterdam and the other from Mary Coddington in the US. They'll both be with Doon long enough for him to be able to say "Thank You" himself. Until then, for these and all the great baby clothes, toys, books, and pointed sticks (kidding):

THANKS!


Well, Dad's back at work, which is why updates are getting a little slow here.

Somebody asked me why we're going to all the bother of cloth diapers (nappies). Here's one good reason.

I had the increasingly rare privilege of walking in an Ancient forest a few years back, on the west coast of Canada. Ancient forests are forests which have never been logged by modern methods, and which therefore benefit from centuries of growth and death which makes them uniquely diverse in their plant and animal life. The forest industry would have us believe that an ancient forest can be replanted. Not so. Trees can be replanted -- not the myriad of life around them. All you get for the next thousand years or so is second-growth forest, completely unlike a real old-growth stand, dominated by particularly fast growing species, uniform in height, sparse in habitat and genetically thin. If you've spent anytime at all in what most of us think of as forests, you'd probably be shocked by what it's like to visit an ancient stand. It's the difference between a prefab church and a cathedral.

Ancient forests in Canada, Russia, the Pacific, and South America are currently being clear-cut, much of it to make paper products like Pampers, a small mountain of which are consumed each year by every baby who uses them. They end up in landfills (accounting by some reckoning for 3% of all landfilled waste) which rob land from agriculture and other uses.

I'm not against logging second-growth forest in a way the forest can keep up with. But 80% of the world's ancient forests are now gone, and won't be seen by another 100 generations or so of human beings.

I want Doon to be able to walk in one of those forests, not wrap it around his bottom and throw it away.

--September 29, 1998

For more info on Ancient Forests, goto the Greenpeace Forest Pages.


 

Hooray!!! Doon gained his birthweight and then some over the past few intensive feeding days, so our little scare is over. He's up to 3.55 Kilos and all's well.

Gramma Muldoon and Aunt Molly and Doon's cousins Megan and Max all got to see Doon live on their computer last night thanks to Netmeeting (and thanks to Megan, the WhizHackerGeekGirl, who got Netmeeting installed and working). Doon was hamming it up for the videocamera big time!!

 

September 21, 1998


 

We're on a grueling feeding schedule with Doon now, and hope he's up in weight on Monday. Should be, he's eating every two hours, and getting a bottle 3-4 times a day in addition. We've been getting a lot of support and advice through this from Brian's Mom, Martha's Mom, Martha's sister, friends here in Amsterdam who've recently had kids, and an Internet site dedicated to Breastfeeding support and questions (http://www.parentsplace.com). The dominant opinion seems to be that prescribing formula supplements at two weeks is a bit extreme, at least at the level the Consultatie Bureau was suggestiong (700 cl/day). In fact, they were suggesting supplements at 8 days, so it seems they have a strong pro-formula bias. A friend of ours calls them the "Baby Police" and notes they're only role is to find something to worry mothers about, and that Amsterdammers generally ignore them. It's all very confusing and hard on us, though, when the "authorities" are saying one thing, and our midwife, nurse, and lots of others are saying they're all wrong. This is where the best advice still seems to be Dr. Spock's: "Trust yourself. You know more than you know."

Brian and Doon spent the hours of 1am-2am wide awake looking at each other last night. Magic.

September 20, 1998


We put Doony on a supplemental bottle today. His weight went down from our last visit to the Consultatie bureau, and they reckon he just isn't getting enough milk, or he's working too hard for it. Brian's Mom reported (via Martha's mom via Aunt Molly via E-mail) that Brian too lost a lot of his birthweight and was slow to get it back, so it may just be that the boy has his Dad's metabolism. But doctor's orders were a supplemental bottle, so we're doing our best to make sure he keeps it supplemental and doesn't give up on Mama Martha's all Natural Meals.

Doon spent some time in his bassinet in the living room today, listening to Mike & Pat's band, Flea Market (Thanks for the CD, y'all). He seemed to like "Jive Turkey" best.

Megan put Doon Wallpaper on the Clan computer, which inspired me to upload my own two favorites.

September 16, 1998


 

We went to the Consutatie Bureau today in the POURING rain. Doon's weight was up from Friday's measure of 3.25 Kilograms to 3.28 Kilograms, which is good, though he still hasn't recovered his birthweight of 3.5. So while encouraged he's gaining weight, we're back on Wednesday for another check, and keeping that grueling feed-that-boy- every-two-to-three hours routine.

The attempt to establish Doon's paternity with the Dutch government continued today, as the marriage license provided by Seneca County was scrutinized and found wanting. This time the Apostille was OK, but they wanted a different marriage certificate from the NY State Department of Health. Luckily, the bureaucrat I had to deal with wasn't made of wood, and with only minimum prompting, footstomping, and holding my breath until I turned blue, he made some calls and got an OK. Then across Amsterdam on my bike in a Force 6 gale to the Vriendelingenpolitie to get THEIR blessing, then back to the local Stadsdeel office tomorrow, and we'll then have the right pieces of paper filed with the right authorities to prove that a) Marth and I are married and therefore b) I can legally be Doon's father. One thing fer sure, I'm glad we're not trying to do this in ITALY. Next nightmare: Doon's nationality. He's technically entitled to three passports right now: Irish, American, and Dutch!

September 14, 1998


The Secret of Parenthood is getting some sleep while the kid isn't looking.
--Anonymous, from a book Uncle Tim sent us: Thanks Uncle Tim!!!!

Well, Doon was down in weight again on Friday, which of course sent us into a panic of baby book consultation. The nurse wants to see him again on Monday and see a gain in weight or start putting him on formula supplements, which we'd prefer to avoid since it often breaks the nursing cycle. All his other signs are generally fine, he's just not putting on weight. We've canceled all weekend visitors and set to the task of feeding Doon every two-three hours. Which means refueling Marth fairly frequently as well!

September 13, 1998


 

Yesterday was Doon's first day out. We walked around the corner to the Consultatie Bureau, which now takes over monitoring Doon's weight and health. We said goodbye to our nurse Maaika, who said all was well and cleaned up the laundry room as a parting gift. Doon's weight was down to 3.25 kilograms from a birth weight of 3.50, within the normal tolerance of a 10% loss. We go back on Friday to see if he's started gaining, which we suspect he is! The boy's got an appetite! He's sleeping longer at night, and has times when he's just awake and looking around. That's when Dad loves carrying him around the house, trying to figure out what Doon is seeing and thinking and feeling. Dad's been reading Timequake by Kurt Vonnegut lately, and there's a description in there that Marth and I found really apt. Vonnegut got a neighbor of his, a jack of all trades, to rebuild his writing studio. The guy tore down the old one, poured the cement for the foundation, framed up a new shell, put a roof and walls on it, put in the plumbing and electricity. When it was all done except for the paint, Vonnegut and the neighbor were outside looking at it and the neighbor all of the sudden took a step back and said "how the hell did I do that?" We just keep looking into those big peepers. How the hell did we do that?"

September 10, 1998


It's kind of like drowning in an infinite, joyful sea of exhaustion, isn't it? At night we get a couple hours rest, the Doon Unit gets inconsolable, and even though the lack of sleep holds our heads under water for a while, we seem to have this bubble of magic happiness surrounding us and we can't wipe these s-t-u-p-i-d grins off our faces. Doon is feeding just fine, and last night went for a couple three hour stretchs between feedings. Are we happy? We're HAPPY. Sabine the midwife stopped in for a checkup and said everything is A-OK. She also told us that she delivered 5, (Yes, that's FIVE) babies the Day Doon arrived. Our neighborhood is a melting pot of cultures, with Dutch, Morrocan, Surinamese, Pakistani, Turkish and the odd Irish American family thrown in. In the islamic cultures, the midwife is the "second mother" and traditionally takes the baby for a month a few months after he or she is born. Sabine obviously has to gently decline this honor, or she'd be travelling around the neighborhood with a dozen or so toddlers under her arm!

September 6, 1998


Doon had his first bath today and said hello to the neighbors from our back balcony. All going well, he's learning to nurse just fine. We had a bit of a kuffufel with the bureaucracy, though, when Brian went to register Doon at the town hall. Because we couldn't produce a marriage certificate that's had an "apostile" attached to satisfy the Dutch authorities that it's a real American Marriage certificate, Brian can't be officially designated the father, and Doon can't be registered under the Fitzgerald name. So we have 30 days to produce the document or Brian loses all fatherhood rights and Doon has to go through life as "Doon Muldoon." Martha's sister Molly sprang into action for us, and got in touch with the same clerk at Seneca Falls town hall, Nicoletta Greer, who helped us through the LAST labor day certificate panic. That was three years ago, when Marth and I hadn't gotten a wedding license -- which required a 48 hour waiting period -- and were due to be married in 24 hours. So we figure we'll make a tradition of this, and ask Nicoletta for an emergency fishing license next year just for fun.

September 3, 1998


Pheww! Not much sleep yesterday, I caught up a little last night but Marth has been going for two days. We're busy mastering the art of diapers and learning Doon's vocabulary. Thanks everybody for the congratulations, the mountain of e-mail, and the visits. Thanks to the staff at Greenpeace for the great outfit and the wonderful book of wishes, my Senior Management Team colleagues for the case of Budweiser (talk about style!) and I promise to get more pictures up after we catch up on our sleep. Yeah, yeah, I know.. that'll mean an 18 year wait! But trust me, it's worth it. We haven't put up a picture of Doon with his EYES OPEN, but they're quite a set of peepers!

September 2, 1998


Brian's brother David guessed Doon would be a girl, since the size of the belly said "major attitude," but his son Jake got it right when he said Doon had to be a boy so Uncle Brian would have someone to play video games with. So far, Doon isn't so hot on the keyboard, but all in good time...

Our friend Jenny made an appointment with us last week for this Tuesday, but said she figured we'd be a having a baby today. Correct! She also said Doon was a boy. Correct again! And she woke up this morning at 6:15 and knew Doon was either being born or had been. Spooky Correct!


September 1st, 1998, 6:18 AM: IT'S A BOY!!!!


August 31, 20:40 Martha's Waters just broke! No contractions yet, so we're going to try to get some sleep before they start. The average advice of the six contradictory books on our shelf is that lab