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Photos of the day.
Just a Saturday
Saturday morning, Doon is bouncing on the bed at 5:30 because he put out his shoe last night along with a new innovation: a pan of water for Amerigo, the horse that Sinterklaas rides through Amsterdam delivering presents from now until December 5th.
We all tumble downstairs sleepy and dishevelled and half dressed. Doon reckons his innovation worked: there are THREE presents in his shoe, which he reckons to be a direct consequence of the boon for Amerigo.
It's a book and a DVD and one enormous marshmallow kitty-cat on a stick.
Dylan helps me make my coffee: a daily ritual that involves many games. Is it juice that goes in the pot? No? Ketchup? Dylan guides his sleepy daddy through the correct procedures and ingredients to create a perfect pot of Crrrrrrrrshhhhhhhhhhhhhh. (His word for coffee is the sound of the cappucino frothing).
In the middle of the floor is a fabric tube that kids and kitties have been having a riot with. Doon and Dylan have invented a game called "Bannana Express"
Martha is giving Riley a cuddle, and I fiddle with camera settings trying to catch the soft light on Riley's red fur and Martha's red hair. I don't even get close.

Between taking pictures and videos, I'm reading about Wild Turkeys in an excellent piece by Bill Buford in the New Yorker, remembering that we're having a late Thanksgiving dinner with the Sawyer-Riggs this evening, contemplating the tasks to do today, sipping my Crrrrrrrrrsssssshhhhh and remembering how little of any of this I'll remember by the time Dylan is Doon's age.
Unless I write it down.
I can't remember all the times I tried to tell my myself
To hold on to these moments as they pass
The guy in the Red Suit comes to Amsterdam
Sinterklaas arrived by boat today with his Zwarte Piet helpers from Morroco. Doon and Dylan and I went into the center of town to greet him and his parade, and get our haul of pepernoten cookies and treats. The shoes go out by the fireplace tonight with an apple for the Sint's horse. Ah, and that beard that Daddy's sporting is part of a Beard Challenge about a half dozen of us are having at work. It stays on until xmas.
Announcing Riley and Nikita

Siberian Forest Kittens Riley and Nikita join Casa Fitzgerald's Concentrated Cute Juice Cannery.
Cottage on Cayuga

What a great summer. Thanks to Martha's sister Molly, we spent most of our holiday on the lake. No TV. No internet. Just sunrises, sailing, kayaking, and s'mores. Oh, and a couple hands of poker and a few beers. Great to see family and old friends and just kick back for a while. There's a small slideshow here of snaps from the trip, but disk space doesn't allow us to do justice to all of it, from parties to hiking up the gorge at Taughannack Falls to the amusement park at SeaBreeze, and nothing captures the taste of steamers and silver queen corn fresh out of the field. Doon is back to school tomorrow and Brian back to work -- summer went by too fast.
Off on holiday

Marth and the boys headed off to the States the Sunday after Doon's school let out. Brian has been hanging in Amsterdam in a bit of shock about how much time he has on his hands without the kids, but after a week of Woo Hoo! now wants to get back to that Dad stuff ASAP. I fly August 3rd. More pix at Flickr.
Zomer time, and het leven is easy...

A little while ago we went to Apenheul, a primate park about an hour outside of Amsterdam, to commune with the monkeys. What a great place. "Zoo" hardly qualifies as a description when it seems the monkeys have more space and freedom than the visitors, which is how it ought to be really. Paths wander around or past large islands where the animals roam free -- you can only see the gorillas from a distance, if at all, if they choose to hang out at the edges of their retreat. (Apenheul holds the record for Gorilla births in captivity: 35 since 1970) In one area, spider monkeys run around in a network of treetop ropes and bridges. They can come down and hang out with the humans if they're so inclined. I told Doon to wear something with pockets, as the monkeys are always interested in trying to scam an illicit treat or grab a trinket (all human food, of course, has to be left outside these areas of the park or locked up in the free "monkey-proof" bags that Apenheul hands out). It worked! Doony ended up with one bold little guy coming over and deftly lifting the velcro flap on his vest. Slideshow here.
The World Cup has begun with a great set of games, and Clan Fitzgerald, while not very pleased that Ireland didn't qualify, are happy to cheer for the Netherlands, England, Italy, and the US. Dylan, bless his cotton socks, will cheer for anyone with a silly hat:
Ahh, Italia!

May 13, 2006: Just back from a week in Italy. What a blast. So great to see old friends and do some major unwinding relaxation in the sun sun sun. Here's a slideshow of pix from our days of olive hunting and pigging out. My favorite bits: trespassing in Salci, the abandoned village, with Paddy and Doon. Hanging out at Rowan's house. The Kite festival in Castiglione. The wild boar at L'oca Bruciata and truffles at Pina's. Playing "baseball" with Doon. Dylan playing with the kittens that Domi had. Visiting Leslie up at our old house. Seeing Doon conquer his fear of scorpions by finding one. Staying up until midnight with the kids watching Suzy's band perform. The placemat drawing Doony did of the entire vacation.
More Words!

April 14, 2006: Dylan said "More" yesterday. Three times, as Martha droned at dinner. When she realized he was asking for something, she got up to get him "more" juice, then did a triple take as Doony jumped up and down saying "He talked! He Talked!"
In some ways, this is his first "real" word in that it's the first time he's used a word, rather than a gesture and a grunt, to get something beyond our attention. On the other hand, he's been fluent in several animal sounds for some time now. Here's a bit of video of his onomotopaeic prowess. Enjoy!
Jive Talkin'
March 19, 2006: It's been a long time since the old creaky website here has had an update. Dylan is now moving chairs to get to things out of reach, he says a limited handful of words clearly (hear 'em here: Da-da, Ma-ma, Hello, and "Dil") and every now and then pops out something clear as a bell. We've heard "Bye" "Rice" one very crisp "Doony" (who otherwise seems to be known only as "Ya-Ya" in Dylan world) and a smattering of other stuff.
Here's a video of what happens when three kids watch Madagascar a *few too many times*:
Sorry about that X -- I Quicktime isn't convinced I've got a valid Macromedia Flash Video license for some reason...
Doony wants to submit this one to "America's Funniest Home Videos" and win thousands of dollars.
Merry Christmas!
December 25, 2005: Santa Claus rocks! He brought us a new cappucino maker, a 20gig mp3 player so we can keep the music collection upstairs on the stereo where it belongs instead of down in the basement on the computer, a combination foosball-ping pong-shuffleboard-hockey-pool table, and all the goodies we could want. Oh, and the kids got some stuff as well.
It was magic. Dylan did a little dance every time he got a present to open and Doon despite bouncing off the ceiling found time to be the helpful big brother. He thoughtfully noticed when his dad broke a much loved coffee cup a few weeks ago, and made a replacement with one of his own drawings on it.
Here's a slideshow of xmas pictures that Marth put together. Merry merry!
Autumn in Amsterdam
November 2, 2005: Halloween in Amsterdam has come and gone, with nary a trick-or-treater at the door. It's one American holiday I really miss. Sinter Maarten is coming soon, where kids go door to door with lanterns on sticks and sing for "snoopjes," but there's no pumpkins, no masks, none of that witchy overlay that makes Halloween so much fun.
Dylan has been heard recently to say clearly Kitty, Plum, Mama, Doony, Key, Bye and a handful of other bits of starter vocabulary. But "Gih?" remains his all purpose monosyllable along with some astoundingly communicative facial expressions and pointing. His giggle when he successfully communicates what he wants is priceless.
It's all about pattern recognition at this age, and he knows when it's time to toddle to the front door to say goodbye to Daddy and Doony, when it's time to crawl "up up up" for his good night kiss through the rungs of the stairway. In the morning he hangs out with Dad in the bathroom getting ready, and knows when it's time to fetch me a towel (well, every towel actually -- we're working on this) when the water goes off. He also runs around with his own toothbrush while Doony and I brush and the other day sat on the floor and decided it was time to try toothpaste. What a surprised and disappointed little face tried to get it all off of his tongue as fast as possible. He has since decided he was mistaken, and toothpaste is the stuff you put in your hair.
I've been playing around with Google Earth lately. I have really enjoyed being able to zoom in on the places where Marth and I lived in Italy, the nuclear weapons test site in Nevada where I hung out among the craters, the Shotover river where I went bungie jumping in New Zealand, my grandfather's old homestead in Ireland, even the water tower I climbed in Seneca Falls on one ill-advised teenage lark. My brother Dave first told me about this application back when it was called Keyhole. If you've downloaded it on your computer, you can click here to see my placemarks.

Back from Summer Vacation
What a great time in Seneca Falls this summer. We're back in Amsterdam now, where Doon is getting ready for Birthday Party #2 (Dutch Version) and Dylan is walking. Which means a whole new round of Homestead Security here at Casa Fitzgerald. A few pix of the summer holiday here.
Doon gets his swimming certificate!"

About half of Doon's swimming class was invited to try for their A-diploma. This is the swimming certificate that allows them to swim in municipal pools without a flotation device. To pass, he had to swim the length of an Olympic pool with his clothes on; jump in and swim underwater through a ring without coming up for air; tread water for ten seconds with no hands; demonstrate he could float on his back and face down, and swim the crawl, the breaststroke, and on his back.
He did it! Amsterdam makes quite a ceremony of this -- there are greeting cards and special commemorative tiles you can buy to mark the event, and all the parents turn out for the ceremony. As the Netherlands is a country built on water, they make it a national right of passage that everyone is expected to learn to swim. Thanks to Megan for starting him off with his first lessons!
He Stands! (with help)

Who's a proud boy? He's wobbly, but standing with assistance. He's eaten rice mush, cauliflower mush, stringbean mush, and pear mush so far. And woe betide the parent or brother that denies him his stand-up workout at the bedstead or crib, he's serious about this.
We had the biggest snow in 25 years in Amsterdam last week. So Dave, you remember that sled you schlepped to the airport for us and that Marth and I schlepped all the way over here that I thought would sit in the basement unused? Well surprise surprise, it got a really fun couple of days out here in Amsterdam and in Muidenberg with the Stannard-Pickavers family. Pictures of the snowy wonderment here.
Bottle beginnings

Doon asks me "If
the world is spinning around, how come we're never upside down?" I
used one of his Ninja Turtle action figures and soccer ball to try to explain it,
but I don't think he was convinced. He's reading every bedtime now in English to compliment
his classroom reading in Dutch and is proud to have
read ten books cover to cover.
Dylan started on a bottle
today! Big step for the little guy. Strange to see him able to
hold the bottle on his own -- Doon was so much younger when he
started that he couldn't get his little hands around it. Dylan is grasping and holding
onto anything he fancies now including hair, human or feline. Guaio has only once lost
her patience with him to give him a tap with her paw, which seems extraordinary since he can regularly be spotted with fistfuls
of fur that need to be intercepted on their way mouthward.
Doon has made it his personal mission, when Dylan cries, to "Happy him up," and nobody
can get the poppy seed into fits of giggles and smiles the way Doony can.
Well, I
FINALLY got pictures from Xmas and
New Years in Seneca Falls together. We had such a great
time.

Sinterklaas

We had a super Sinterklaas Pakjes Avond (present night) with friends over at Kelly's house. Slideshow here.

See that personality starting to show? Dylan is laughing and smiling now, and while it's sometimes hard to figure out what he thinks is sooooo funny, his big brother figures in the picture fairly often. Here's some more photos.

It's Sinterklaas time for Doony. We went to the parade last weekend, where Sinterklaas rides through Amsterdam on his horse surrounded by his assistants, the Black Petes. They throw cookies and candies out to the kids who line the streets of Amsterdam, so Doon came prepared with his fishnet. Every night, Doon puts a boot by the fireplace with an apple or a carrot for Sinterklaas' horse, and in the morning finds a little present in its place.
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Pop quiz: Which one is Doon, and which one is Dylan???? (Doon himself got this wrong!)
We went to see David William Bell
on Saturday. He's the brand new
son of Kevin and Angela, our friends from
Alaska and Puglia. Doon was
excited to meet a new friend, and Marth and Brian were amazed to remember
how tiny and lightweight babies can be -- and Doon once was!
Qui ci sono piú foto del picollo "bell-ino"
Here you can see more photos of the Baby Bell
Martha and Doon just got back from FLORIDA where Doony had a great time soaking in the vitamin C and basking in attention beams from Uncles, Aunts, Cousins, and Gramma -- click here for a few photos. Brian's just back from China, India, Thailand, and a sailing trip across the Bay of Bengal aboard the Rainbow Warrior. Click here to hear one of his Illustrated Radio reports from the trip.
We're dealing with a bit of bad news right now, having heard last week that Doony's heart murmur is the result of a birth defect in his aortic valve -- it's a very common defect in which the valve is made up of two rather than three cusps, making the heart work a little harder to get the blood through the body. It's of moderate severity, may not require any attention at all, but we're a bit worried it wasn't heard at birth. It could mean that it was just missed, which we hope, or it could mean that it's become noisier in the past few months indicating a narrowing of the valve. We'll have another test in 6 months to see where it stands, and for now we'll just hope for the best. HE certainly hasn't gotten the news that anything is wrong. Still dancin', climbin', runnin', hoopin' and hollerin'!
Season's
Greetings! Click Here for Doon's Animated Xmas Card
Christmas Day! You can see
pix here. Hope everybody had a happy
happy and Santa was good to you! He was very good to me and Doony! Doon's trying
to teach the Furby Doonish, and the Furby is teaching him furbish. Me, I'm CONFUSED.
The Christmas tree is up! Marth and I decorated it last night after he'd gone to sleep, and this morning when we turned on the lights it was like switching on his smile: a big-eyed wonderous glowing wow.
Finally got around to scanning some recent photos, including a couple from Grandma's visit, which you can see here. I would have been quicker at this, but Aunt Molly's computer has been broken for the last couple weeks, so it's been harder for her to nag me!
December 20, 1999
Doon sure had a good time with Grandma. He wishes he were in Seneca Falls today for Charlie's 75th Birthday Party! Happy Birthday Charlie!

Grandma
is here!! Doon greeted her at the airport with a smile that could have ended
the Cold War.
This morning Marth and I were trying (very unsuccessfully) to sleep in while
Doon ran around the bedroom, wanting to get out the door and start his day.
He heard Grandma's voice through the door and piped up clear as a bell: GRANDMA!
(The unspoken bit being: Come and Get Me I Want To Play!) That's a major expansion
to his current vocabulary of "hot," "up," "hop,"
and several hundred words and expressions for "no."
You can see pix of our day out today in the Vondelpark, and Molly, this is to entice you back to Amsterdam real soon to sample what you missed last time:

November, 1999

This one's for you, Molly!
Been a long time since we've had an update here! We had a wonderful time in Montana this August watching Doony learn to walk, caught up with friends in Seneca Falls (and Ithaca for Birdy & Steve's Wedding), and have spent the early autumn here in Amsterdam watching Doony RUN around. He's got one word down pat now: HOT, which he learned at his Grandma Muldoon's every time he tried to grab a coffee cup from one of us. He uses it for everything that's dangerous, forbidden, or which hurts. The other day he was giving the cat a cuddle (which he does by pressing his forehead up against the cat), looked up at me, pointed to the cat's paws and said "HOT!" while vigorously nodding his head. He's had a couple love taps from those claws, so he's learning!
We've been busy with more home improvements. I finally sanded the old floorboards in our bedroom, Marth sealed them and then painted the room an eggplant-oyster combination. And Doony's "Big Boy Room" looks great, though I haven't gotten pix of it yet. Marth did a fabulous job finishing the big double doors, and while there's a few finishing touches left to do, it's turned out very well.

June 13, 1999: Went to Uitdam for a sail and a picnic today. Doony had his Life Jacket all ready to go out on his first sail with dad, but it was too rough so he stayed on land with mom. We had lots of fun with Daryl, Myriam, and Henry and Sebastian, though, revelling in the sunny summer weather. And one of the joys of summer that Doony discovered is ... WATERMELON! See pics of our day out here.

May 30, 1999: We're enjoying a GLORIOUS spate of beautiful weather here in Amsterdam, fitting for a good old American Memorial Day Weekend and the summer's kickstart. The Boy is getting more use out of his outdoor swing, and we had our first Bar-b-cue of the year out in the Garden yesterday. Doony really wanted one of those steaks, but we don't think his six teeth are up to that challenge yet.
He fell out of bed the other day, which was a scary new first -- he's got a primitive sort of crawl, sometimes backwards, going, just enough to get him into trouble!
Tomorrow he'll be starting his 9th Month, so here's some photos -- Hugs!

April 30, 1999: Auntie Molly arrived today along with Honorary Auntie Patty, just in time for the Queen's Day celebration. They brought great presents, including new clothes, cookies from Great Aunt Helen, a neato toy that Derek picked out for Doon, and more wires for Brian. Thanks!!!!
Doony is up to six teeth now, with a seventh coming in. He eats three square meals a day and weighs 10 and a half kilos (23 pounds!) -- a BIG boy! He's experimenting with new sounds, including something that's getting close to "Mammma" but with a few extra syllables thrown in. He also loves making a noise and waving his hand over his lips. Reverb!
He's completely mobile now in his walker, which he can race across the living room in, to the continuing dismay of the cats. NOTHING is safe...
Easter: Doon has a third tooth coming in (he's WAILING at this moment!). He's also embarking upon all kinds of adventures in verticality. He can stand holding himself up on the bars of his crib, he's got a walker now that he can push around backwards but not forwards yet, and he loves pushing up with his legs to an upright position. He cracks up with this huge smile whenever he finds himself standing, he's so darned pleased with himself!!!!! (From his point of view, he probably sees us crack up with these huge smiles whenever he finds himself upright because we're so darned pleased with him!!!)
UPDATE ALERT: Doon's got TWO TEETH!!! We thought he'd been a little cranky lately! UPDATE ALERT UPDATE: OK, for those of you (And you KNOW who you are) who've been overloading the server with demands to SEE those teeth -- when was the last time YOU tried to take a picture of two tiny chompers in the mouth of a 6-month old who has just discovered how to BITE???? Gimme a BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Update Alert Update Update: OK, the video Gods smiled on us for one brief millisecond:

March 7, 1999
Woooohoooohoooohooo!!! Starting with rice cereal and moving on to peas, Doony began eating solid food this week. And he actually swallowed the little bit that could be spared from the far more important task of getting it all over his face, his clothes, his mom and dad, the furniture, and the cat.
Everyone we talk to gets all wistful and says this time flies away too fast, and so we're trying to capture as much of it as we can (on audio tape, video tape, photos, jpegs, words, mushed pea sculptures...) and savor the passing. I was away for three days of meetings at the beginning of the week, and the boy looked so different when I came back -- he's got his thumb pressed hard on the fast-forward button, while we keep hitting pause.
Hope you enjoy the pix of Doon eating as much as we enjoyed the feedings.
Those of you who have sent us Guest Book messages know we had an animation of the Ally McBeal "Ukachucka" baby on the confirmation page. Well, I had to make room last week on the site for a big sound file, so I took the animation off, thinking nobody would notice. We promptly got the following harangue via the Guest Book:
Hey, so what happened to youze guyzez' cool 'Guestbook Message Sent' banner? You know, the cutsie-wutsie, coodley-doodley, bouncy-wouncy, hippity-hoppity, artsy-fartsy, rude, crude, and socially-nonredeeming (albeit, somewhat psycho-redemptive), odd...but, in a good way, Freudian-freakazoidal,cyber-zygoidal, virtual-neo-natalistic, ! how-now-'Buster Brown", Ally McSurreal...DANCING BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I miss him! BRING BACK THE BABY!!!!!!... And this time, super-impose Dude's face on him! If the DANCING BABY does not return, there's gonna be trubul, BIG trubul...with a capital K!!! Wadda' we want?: the DANCING BABY!!! Whenda' we want it?: NEXT WEBSITE HIT!!! Whozit gonna look like?: THE DUDE!!!!!!!!!
Who could resist such a challenge? You can see the results by filling out a Guest Book message and clicking SEND.
February 20, 1999
Doony is sitting in my lap as I type this, staring into the computer screen and waving his hands at the keyboard. Ahhh, a chip off the old pentium if every I saw one! Today was not Saturday but "Dadurday" -- the day I take Doony and let mom sleep late , get out of the house, and just generally take a break.
We went to the little park around the corner, watched somebody feeding the ducks, saw a big bird who flew over the stroller. Then we made peanut butter cookies and had a nap.
Doon's hair is growing back now. He lost almost all of it except a little orangutan tuft in the back. It's still impossible to tell what color it will be, though. He has light eyebrows, so it could come out blonde or red, but right now it's an unreadable mix that looks different depending on the light.
Big development news is that he's learned from his Mom how to stick out his tongue. It's good we're getting these essential life skills down early, and he's got it nailed. You stick your tongue out at him and he just cracks up and sticks his out back at you. Not very far, mind, but he's learning. His other big game now is "Take Dad's Glasses Off" which is minutes of fun for all...
The boy's a cyberstar, by the way! His photo is featured at the Official Flea Market Page! Check it out!
--January 23, 1999
Ooof. The day after Xmas EVERYBODY took sick, and stayed that way right through New Years. Even the midnight fireworks of Amsterdam (which could easily put Nato on Red Alert if it wasn't an annual event) didn't wake us out of our stupor. It's the GODZILLA FLU, and it just swatted away every form of advanced firepower we could throw at it. Even Turkey Soup didn't work against it. We took Doon to the doctor and all he could do was circle the boy's head with tiny toy helicopters making machine gun noises, prescribe some cough medicine and shrug -- "It's that time of year..." before being squashed by a gigantic lizardly foot that crashed through the ceiling.
Ah well, we had a great Christmas, and I'm sure we'll all be feeling better...soon.
Happy 1999!
Did we have fun back in Sneaky Falls for Thanksgiving? We sure did. Doon got to meet the grandmas and lots of relatives, we went bowling, we saw FLEA MARKET, and we ate WAY too much.
We're enjoying Doon's first Christmas, watching him learn to do a two-hand grab, support his weight (sort of) on both legs, and try out his range of noises. He came back from the US officially overweight!!!!!!I As mentioned in previous Doon Diaries, the dreaded BABY POLICE had sent us into a paroxysm (oh to rack THAT one up in a scrabble game some day) over Doon's low weight compared to the Average Healthy Dutch Child. Over Thanksgiving he zoomed up above the curve! I expected this would make the Baby Police furrow their brows with equal concern, since that seems to be their stock and trade, but they merrily told us it was nothing to worry about. Gosh, something not to worry about?
He just got his vaccinations, and we'd been reading the pro and con literature, the evidence of possible links to crib death, the warning signs of brain inflammation.... Shudder-inducing stuff. Of course, the stories of parents who DIDN'T get their kids inoculated and regretted it were pretty shudder-inducing as well. I suppose we just need to get used to the prospect of shuddering alot for the next 18 years or so.
Sorry for the long delay in the page update. I generally try to avoid the Molly-larm, which is the built in alarm system that this page comes with. If no images are uploaded within a certain amount of time, it begins to generate automatic emails which escalate from nudge to plea to whimper to... well, I never let it get much farther than that. I worry that she'll discover she has ultimate power if she ever threatens to stop making her rhubarb pies...
NEWS: We'll be in Seneca Falls for Thanksgiving, where y'all who'll be around can experience Doony at maximum bandwidth. Hitting town on or around the 19th and both of us will be there through Turkey Day weekend, Marth staying on into the first week in December, when I have to be back at work.
Doon had company yesterday when Charlie came downstairs for a visit. Charlie is the 5 month old daughter of our neighbors Ludo and Karin. You can see pix of them in the Playtime Pictures Page.
Thanks, Duncan, for the Caterpillar!!!!! He loves it!
You can see some of Doon's new and amusing faces in the latest pics page. He sure has a bunch of them!
Uncle John and Aunt Nancy were here last weekend, and we didn't get any pics!!! You'll just have to trust us on this one: we had a great time. Doon had a nice nap on his uncle's shoulder. Thanks to everybody who sent stuff over with them (they almost had to pay excess luggage!) and especially Kelley for all the neat stuff. And yes, We Got Milk! ;o)
See the picture panel for new pics of Doon as he turned one month old. His range of facial expression has gotten way bigger in the past few days (Martha insists she's seen smiles, but Brian won't believe it until he gets one himself!) and the boy had Marth cracking up with laughter for a solid 10 minutes yesterday morning.
We've gotten so many great gifts, and we haven't even begun the "Thank You" cards yet, but hang in there! Two really special hand made items came in, though, which are shown on the new picture page, one from Layla Rose Sawyer here in Amsterdam and the other from Mary Coddington in the US. They'll both be with Doon long enough for him to be able to say "Thank You" himself. Until then, for these and all the great baby clothes, toys, books, and pointed sticks (kidding):
THANKS!
Well, Dad's back at work, which is why updates are getting a little slow here.
Somebody asked me why we're going to all the bother of cloth diapers (nappies). Here's one good reason.
I had the increasingly rare privilege of walking in an Ancient forest a few years back, on the west coast of Canada. Ancient forests are forests which have never been logged by modern methods, and which therefore benefit from centuries of growth and death which makes them uniquely diverse in their plant and animal life. The forest industry would have us believe that an ancient forest can be replanted. Not so. Trees can be replanted -- not the myriad of life around them. All you get for the next thousand years or so is second-growth forest, completely unlike a real old-growth stand, dominated by particularly fast growing species, uniform in height, sparse in habitat and genetically thin. If you've spent anytime at all in what most of us think of as forests, you'd probably be shocked by what it's like to visit an ancient stand. It's the difference between a prefab church and a cathedral.
Ancient forests in Canada, Russia, the Pacific, and South America are currently being clear-cut, much of it to make paper products like Pampers, a small mountain of which are consumed each year by every baby who uses them. They end up in landfills (accounting by some reckoning for 3% of all landfilled waste) which rob land from agriculture and other uses.
I'm not against logging second-growth forest in a way the forest can keep up with. But 80% of the world's ancient forests are now gone, and won't be seen by another 100 generations or so of human beings.
I want Doon to be able to walk in one of those forests, not wrap it around his bottom and throw it away.
--September 29, 1998
For more info on Ancient Forests, goto the Greenpeace Forest Pages.
Hooray!!! Doon gained his birthweight and then some over the past few intensive feeding days, so our little scare is over. He's up to 3.55 Kilos and all's well.
Gramma Muldoon and Aunt Molly and Doon's cousins Megan and Max all got to see Doon live on their computer last night thanks to Netmeeting (and thanks to Megan, the WhizHackerGeekGirl, who got Netmeeting installed and working). Doon was hamming it up for the videocamera big time!!
September 21, 1998
We're on a grueling feeding schedule with Doon now, and hope he's up in weight on Monday. Should be, he's eating every two hours, and getting a bottle 3-4 times a day in addition. We've been getting a lot of support and advice through this from Brian's Mom, Martha's Mom, Martha's sister, friends here in Amsterdam who've recently had kids, and an Internet site dedicated to Breastfeeding support and questions (http://www.parentsplace.com). The dominant opinion seems to be that prescribing formula supplements at two weeks is a bit extreme, at least at the level the Consultatie Bureau was suggestiong (700 cl/day). In fact, they were suggesting supplements at 8 days, so it seems they have a strong pro-formula bias. A friend of ours calls them the "Baby Police" and notes they're only role is to find something to worry mothers about, and that Amsterdammers generally ignore them. It's all very confusing and hard on us, though, when the "authorities" are saying one thing, and our midwife, nurse, and lots of others are saying they're all wrong. This is where the best advice still seems to be Dr. Spock's: "Trust yourself. You know more than you know."
Brian and Doon spent the hours of 1am-2am wide awake looking at each other last night. Magic.
September 20, 1998
We put Doony on a supplemental bottle today. His weight went down from our last visit to the Consultatie bureau, and they reckon he just isn't getting enough milk, or he's working too hard for it. Brian's Mom reported (via Martha's mom via Aunt Molly via E-mail) that Brian too lost a lot of his birthweight and was slow to get it back, so it may just be that the boy has his Dad's metabolism. But doctor's orders were a supplemental bottle, so we're doing our best to make sure he keeps it supplemental and doesn't give up on Mama Martha's all Natural Meals.
Doon spent some time in his bassinet in the living room today, listening to Mike & Pat's band, Flea Market (Thanks for the CD, y'all). He seemed to like "Jive Turkey" best.
Megan put Doon Wallpaper on the Clan computer, which inspired me to upload my own two favorites.
September 16, 1998
We went to the Consutatie Bureau today in the POURING rain. Doon's weight was up from Friday's measure of 3.25 Kilograms to 3.28 Kilograms, which is good, though he still hasn't recovered his birthweight of 3.5. So while encouraged he's gaining weight, we're back on Wednesday for another check, and keeping that grueling feed-that-boy- every-two-to-three hours routine.
The attempt to establish Doon's paternity with the Dutch government continued today, as the marriage license provided by Seneca County was scrutinized and found wanting. This time the Apostille was OK, but they wanted a different marriage certificate from the NY State Department of Health. Luckily, the bureaucrat I had to deal with wasn't made of wood, and with only minimum prompting, footstomping, and holding my breath until I turned blue, he made some calls and got an OK. Then across Amsterdam on my bike in a Force 6 gale to the Vriendelingenpolitie to get THEIR blessing, then back to the local Stadsdeel office tomorrow, and we'll then have the right pieces of paper filed with the right authorities to prove that a) Marth and I are married and therefore b) I can legally be Doon's father. One thing fer sure, I'm glad we're not trying to do this in ITALY. Next nightmare: Doon's nationality. He's technically entitled to three passports right now: Irish, American, and Dutch!
September 14, 1998
The Secret
of Parenthood is getting some sleep while the kid isn't looking.
--Anonymous, from a book Uncle Tim sent us: Thanks Uncle Tim!!!!
Well, Doon was down in weight again on Friday, which of course sent us into a panic of baby book consultation. The nurse wants to see him again on Monday and see a gain in weight or start putting him on formula supplements, which we'd prefer to avoid since it often breaks the nursing cycle. All his other signs are generally fine, he's just not putting on weight. We've canceled all weekend visitors and set to the task of feeding Doon every two-three hours. Which means refueling Marth fairly frequently as well!
September 13, 1998
Yesterday was Doon's first day out. We walked around the corner to the Consultatie Bureau, which now takes over monitoring Doon's weight and health. We said goodbye to our nurse Maaika, who said all was well and cleaned up the laundry room as a parting gift. Doon's weight was down to 3.25 kilograms from a birth weight of 3.50, within the normal tolerance of a 10% loss. We go back on Friday to see if he's started gaining, which we suspect he is! The boy's got an appetite! He's sleeping longer at night, and has times when he's just awake and looking around. That's when Dad loves carrying him around the house, trying to figure out what Doon is seeing and thinking and feeling. Dad's been reading Timequake by Kurt Vonnegut lately, and there's a description in there that Marth and I found really apt. Vonnegut got a neighbor of his, a jack of all trades, to rebuild his writing studio. The guy tore down the old one, poured the cement for the foundation, framed up a new shell, put a roof and walls on it, put in the plumbing and electricity. When it was all done except for the paint, Vonnegut and the neighbor were outside looking at it and the neighbor all of the sudden took a step back and said "how the hell did I do that?" We just keep looking into those big peepers. How the hell did we do that?"
September 10, 1998
It's kind of like drowning in an infinite, joyful sea of exhaustion, isn't it? At night we get a couple hours rest, the Doon Unit gets inconsolable, and even though the lack of sleep holds our heads under water for a while, we seem to have this bubble of magic happiness surrounding us and we can't wipe these s-t-u-p-i-d grins off our faces. Doon is feeding just fine, and last night went for a couple three hour stretchs between feedings. Are we happy? We're HAPPY. Sabine the midwife stopped in for a checkup and said everything is A-OK. She also told us that she delivered 5, (Yes, that's FIVE) babies the Day Doon arrived. Our neighborhood is a melting pot of cultures, with Dutch, Morrocan, Surinamese, Pakistani, Turkish and the odd Irish American family thrown in. In the islamic cultures, the midwife is the "second mother" and traditionally takes the baby for a month a few months after he or she is born. Sabine obviously has to gently decline this honor, or she'd be travelling around the neighborhood with a dozen or so toddlers under her arm!
September 6, 1998
Doon had his first bath today and said hello to the neighbors from our back balcony. All going well, he's learning to nurse just fine. We had a bit of a kuffufel with the bureaucracy, though, when Brian went to register Doon at the town hall. Because we couldn't produce a marriage certificate that's had an "apostile" attached to satisfy the Dutch authorities that it's a real American Marriage certificate, Brian can't be officially designated the father, and Doon can't be registered under the Fitzgerald name. So we have 30 days to produce the document or Brian loses all fatherhood rights and Doon has to go through life as "Doon Muldoon." Martha's sister Molly sprang into action for us, and got in touch with the same clerk at Seneca Falls town hall, Nicoletta Greer, who helped us through the LAST labor day certificate panic. That was three years ago, when Marth and I hadn't gotten a wedding license -- which required a 48 hour waiting period -- and were due to be married in 24 hours. So we figure we'll make a tradition of this, and ask Nicoletta for an emergency fishing license next year just for fun.
September 3, 1998
Pheww! Not much sleep yesterday, I caught up a little last night but Marth has been going for two days. We're busy mastering the art of diapers and learning Doon's vocabulary. Thanks everybody for the congratulations, the mountain of e-mail, and the visits. Thanks to the staff at Greenpeace for the great outfit and the wonderful book of wishes, my Senior Management Team colleagues for the case of Budweiser (talk about style!) and I promise to get more pictures up after we catch up on our sleep. Yeah, yeah, I know.. that'll mean an 18 year wait! But trust me, it's worth it. We haven't put up a picture of Doon with his EYES OPEN, but they're quite a set of peepers!
September 2, 1998
Brian's brother David guessed Doon would be a girl, since the size of the belly said "major attitude," but his son Jake got it right when he said Doon had to be a boy so Uncle Brian would have someone to play video games with. So far, Doon isn't so hot on the keyboard, but all in good time...
Our friend Jenny made an appointment with us last week for this Tuesday, but said she figured we'd be a having a baby today. Correct! She also said Doon was a boy. Correct again! And she woke up this morning at 6:15 and knew Doon was either being born or had been. Spooky Correct!
September 1st, 1998, 6:18 AM: IT'S A BOY!!!!
August 31, 20:40 Martha's Waters just broke! No contractions yet, so we're going to try to get some sleep before they start. The average advice of the six contradictory books on our shelf is that lab